Thanks for bday wishes yesterday 🐇🌹🐣
Felt like a princess at the #TiffanyBlueBook @tiffanyandco
event on Tuesday night 💘 the collection is so beautiful and so surreal 🌹 thank you @tiffanyandco
as always 🌹 and thank you Kate and Laura for this custom dress, I love you 💍
Hi, Star 💘
Last weekend, I saw @amandlasponsored
shine in her new film The Hate U Give. Her performance is heart stopping. I️ am so proud of her. This person has had one of the biggest influences on my life, I will always look to her as my big sister, ever since we first met as baby weird child actors when I was nine and she was eleven 😳💔 getting to see her meet herself and then be inspired by her and meet myself and my various identities following her and excitedly tell her about them as I was realizing things about my queerness, my teenhood, my coming of age, (Amandla was the first person I ever came out to as queer/bisexual😉) has made our friendship and her spirit a true treasure to me. Getting to see her on the big screen as Starr in this film is so surreal, as her sister and as a fan. And she’s on the cover of fucking @time
! Go see her movie if its out in a theater near you, or see it when it wide releases on the 19th. I love you @amandlasponsored.
Trying to not be tricked into publicly disclosing your own history of sexual trauma right now is hard. You know I believe you and I hope you believe me but more just take every survivor fucking seriously. Having a forced proximity to the word survivor has felt so volatile and invasive because it feels as if that word has been claimed by our abusers too simply by them inflicting it upon us. I am not sure what I want to be called. Victim feels futile but I do think it implies we’re exhausted. I am not trying to fall into a pointless cynicism but I am insisting on admitting a truth: I resent men and the various gendered people they have influenced and enabled who have touched, molested, beaten, assaulted, harassed, stalked, drugged, and raped people I know and the people I don’t. Cis men are violent and dangerous and until numbers prove me wrong I won’t be able to not make statements that can be read as vague. I am too tired, which seems stupid as I am so young. But living under and reaping the effects of the patriarchy daily feels at once aging and quite literally life shortening. There’s no place in America you can be a woman or a queer person and be safe from sexual violence. There’s varying degrees, but there’s no total certainty. I will be turning comments off on this post because I have no energy left to serve as a reddit forum for incels and rapists and men who haven’t assaulted anyone and think I care a lot. On the other side, I don’t want to be read as brave or as a voice of many or like I am somehow an activist for stating the above. I am honestly just tired and my mother is too. Sending love to every person who didn’t ask to be a survivor. Lighting a candle. Rest.
Ninety seven degrees in LA on Monday October 1st
Went to Paris / pretended to not be American / pretended the world isn’t shit / @chrishoran20
and i got our hands on the new perfect @muglerofficial