If you’re outraged or feeling defensive about the #Gillette
ad, ask yourself why. What the ad is: a gentle reminder to men to hold one another accountable for abusive and violent behavior, to be better and more compassionate. What it isn’t: an attack on men or on masculine people. Take a breath. Is your sense of being a man really so tied up in sexual aggression and violence? Are you so sensitive to any critique of masculinity that you can’t take a minute and reflect on how toxic masculinity shows up in your own life? How it might limit you as a human being? This is something that harms real people (men, women, and gender expansive people) every day. And to the women out there defending your “hubbies” and saying that “women are toxic too!!” — please just stop. You’re not helping anyone. Men and women are socialized differently, and were expected to behave differently based on our gender. Not being allowed to cry or feeling like you can’t ask for help when you’re struggling is a part of why men commit suicide at higher rates than women. There’s much more to say on the subject, and I’m glad that people are having these conversations, but personally I’m bored with the same defensive response.
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Ive decided I’m just going to be cis 🙃
I was struggling with my identitity at this time.
Dyed my hair for the first time.
Had my first suicide attempt.
I. Was. Unhappy.
Was able to establish my Gender Identity, came out 5 years ago
almost 1 year on hormones.
Have cut out a lot of toxic people and toxic habits. Started my journey to being Physically & Mentally healthy.
I am content.
It may not seem like a huge step.
And it doesn’t have to be giant leaps to be successful.
You don’t have to be fully happy and excited about the future.
You just have to be curious enough to keep moving forward.💝
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It ain't easy bein' sleezy
but seriously, my heart is breaking
Our good friends at @planbmalmo
came to the rescue with some xlrs and this cozy snapshot from last night. Thanks! 💕
Mulder, I wouldn't put myself on the line for anybody but you.
bacardi limon ringer tee!! super Cool and Hip!!! very cute tucked into some high waisted jeans, fits medium-large, $6-$10 because the color is fading on some spots but no major damage!!
super soft monostripe olive green sweater!! very 90s and paired well with some high waisted jeans or checkered vans! and a skateboard of course. fits medium-xl and keeps you rlly warm in the winter! $11-$15
this pooh sweater is so cute and so warm!! it is disney brand and the lettering is rainbow and i love it. it's a size large but i would say it fits small-medium, im a medium for reference! $15-$20