Nipples are amazing things! With hundreds of nerve endings focused in that small spot, they can be very sensitive. Some people even report that they orgasm through nipple play alone!
Some interesting facts:
✻ Nipples are standard issue on all bodies. Some people have highly sensitive nipples and some not so much. ✻ Nipple sensitivity can change through the menstrual cycle.
✻ Nipples change in size and color with arousal - a sign of increased blood flow to that area.
✻ Stimulation of the nipples lights up the same parts of the brain as genital stimulation, which is likely why it can be so erotically charged, and even orgasmic.
Important tips for nipple play:
✻ Because they are highly sensitive, too much stimulation too soon can be a HUGE turn off. Start gently and build up in intensity to get full pleasure potential.
✻ Every person is different and likes different levels of touch - some people love to float on gentle caresses and sucking, others like intense touch and even pain. Check in with your partner about where your/their limits are.
✻ Don’t forget to play with your own nipples during masturbation! Good to add another level of pleasure to your own solo-experience, as well as a way to let you get comfortable with your own favorite types of touch and stimulation during arousal.
✻ Tongues and fingers are readily accessible tools for nipple play, but you can also make things more interesting with ice cubes and vibrators.
✻ If you want more intense stimulation, you can try biting, clamps, or weights. Build up slowly and check in regularly with your partner. If you have questions about clamps or weights, visit your local knowledgable sex toy shop or educator. .
And while we are talking about nipples, while we often eroticize nipples, first and foremost they have an important role in nourishing infants. So if you happen to see a breastfeeding parent, don’t sexualize it. We don’t complain if we see a parent feeding their child from a bottle, so why do we get offended by them feeding their child from the breast? Just don’t.
Sex fact: there is no reason to circumcise a penis. Circumcision of young boys and eventually baby boys began during the anti-masturbation movement of the Victorian era, a movement whose idea was that masturbation would make you sick and/or kill you and circumcision was believed to prevent masturbation, and hence death, by making it painful to masturbate. Girls also endured clitoridectomies during this period to prevent masturbation. Foods were created to eat in place of masturbating. It was a hysterical anti-sex movement rooted in false-science, yet it is still being practiced daily in hospitals today because men (and some women) want their son’s penis to “look like their father’s.” This is generational abuse. Keep the penis the way nature designed it! #penisart #penisfacts #anticircumcision #anticircumcise #circumcision #justthetip #nerveendings #naturesdesign #sexpositive
Repost by @elioth_zuazo
My original therapist made me hide in shame in large part because she brought a sex-negative attitude to the table. My latest blog is up on the immense effect of one’s psychologist, and how important the proper perspective and fit can be. Especially when it comes to sensitive topics such as SEX and sexuality.
Here’s a little snippet from my blog post, but you can find the rest at suzyfavorhamilton.com/blog/ .
“What I’ve learned is this. Your choice of therapist matters. A lot! I believe your outcome can be very much dependent upon your choice and quality of therapist. Since my original therapist who I spent a very brief time with upon being outed, I’ve had two psychologists. One in Wisconsin. Now one in California. Both of them happen to be sex positive (Having or promoting an open, tolerant, or progressive attitude towards sex and sexuality). My psychiatrist realized this would be an essential criteria. What if I had never been referred to one who was sex positive? What if my therapists demonized my behavior? What if they focused more on the behavior (the sex) and less on what was truly important……the many sources of pain that contributed to cause the in my case reckless behavior. What if they didn’t encourage me to embrace my sexuality, own my past and not run from it? What if they didn’t recognize that shame was literally killing me, triggering me into a constant depressive state, and often leaving me suicidal. What if they didn’t realize how crucial it was to not tell me how to live my life? People had done that to me for a lifetime, and look where it got me. What if my therapists actually made me feel greater shame? Told me as my original one did. No sex, no masturbation, no porn, nothing. Don’t worry about focusing on the sources of pain in my life, just STOP!!!! I witnessed ignorance right there and saw where it would get me.”
#psychology #sexpositive #sex #sexuality #mentalhealth #nostigma #nude #nudeart #nudeartphotography #noshame #therapy #lifecoaching #nudeyoga
Moaning during 69 to avoid during my part...
Trust me, you’re not alone, sis!
Honestly, 69’ing is always so awkward for me. The positioning. The angle. The lack of neck support. I don’t have time. So I just moan like it feels so good that I can’t even deal...until it’s time for the next position 😂
But, as you know by now, there are hella options for getting off! ——————————————————————————
for a few alternative positions for #oralsex
2. Fire Hydrant
3. Cliff Hanger
4. Face Sitting
⠀⠀What do you think? Is 69 the best way to do oral? Or is it awkward for you too? What position do you prefer for #oralsex
? Do you prefer to give or receive? Have you tried any of these alternatives listed here? I’m a fan of Face Sitting but whew chile, the Cliffhanger? Y’all can keep that! 😂
⠀⠀ Check out www.lotusflowerfemme.com and my #IGstory
now for more info about each of these positions and to vote for your favorite! + Share your thoughts below👇🏾
📸: courtesy of @refinery29
wands! I’ve never been one to use a wand in magick, it just felt too hokey. This rose quartz wand though, works a little differently. It’s called a “yoni wand” or crystal sex toy. I bought it after reading about chakrubs (this is not one of theirs unfortunately) because I was curious and now it has a permanent place on my nightstand. I’ve never really cared for rose quartz either but after working with it in this way I’m more in tune with its loving and healing energy. Plus in the summertime the coldness of the crystal is just the most refreshing thing ever. It’s like a cold glass of pink lemonade for your... lower chakras. ✨🍆👀 #witch #crystalhealing #magicwand #sexpositive #sexualhealing #witchesofinstagram #nofilter #rosequartz #love #selflove #yoniwand #crystalsextoys
Free the (disco ball) nipple ✨ The world is constantly judging us, our bodies, and what we do with it, telling us we’re too big, too small, too much, not enough. Here’s to celebrating ourselves, loving ourselves as we are, and making space for whatever the hell we choose to do. What better way to celebrate than disco ball nipples? ✨💿💿✨A collaboration with the super amazing, super talented @cblackburnephoto
💍💍💍💍 These cuties had a quad poly commitment ceremony photographed by @wedventuremag
This morning I was a guest on the Hard Conversations podcast with the LA sex therapist, Tim Norton. We talked about erectile dysfunction. Full disclosure: been there, done that, wrote the article.
The most male thing about the whole podcast was the fact that of the gazillion and one times I've been in conversation with male friends, this was the first time, I'd actually opened up about the periods in my life when my shit could not, would not, work.
Floppy hard-ons are symptomatic of how broken many men are. And broken men, as we see every day, are bitter and dangerous.
When I was going through my own little dysfunctional patch, I never as much as peeped.
That's my bad. Don't let it be yours.
#hardconversations #timnorton #erectiledysfunction #costaricanbananas #sexpositive #masculinity #mantalk #floppydick #naturalviagra
Svůj nový kufr 📋 jsem chtěla původně natočit do instastories, jak hezky přijíždí… Ten poslední po návratu z Helsinek už nevypadal vábně, a tak bylo na čase pořídit nový. Pořídila jsem totožný model, verze ultra light, protože když na jednodenní výlety nemám kufr k odbavení, tak se každý gram navíc počítá… ⠀
Tentokrát jsem sáhla po tmavomodré barvě, o reklamaci jsem se ani nepokoušela. Samsonite má sice pětiletou záruku, ale jsem soudná 😂😁 ⠀
Moje cestování je určitě četnější než standard počítaný výrobcem 😜, ke kterému když připočteme chování letištního personálu, tak to kufr zkrátka nedá víc jak dva roky… ⠀
Protože na mě ve vteřině někdo začal ječet NEFOŤTE, tak jsem video udělat nestihla… Zbytečně se tu nebudu rozčilovat nad chováním letištního personálu, neporušuju pravidla vědomě (rychlé řízení a můj nezávazný sexuální život nepočítám 😁😂), jenom jsem zkrátka netušila, že si po kontrole při rovnání věcí zpátky do kufru nemůžete udělat fotku… ⠀
Občas si říkám, co si o nás musejí cizinci myslet. Celkově chování letištního personálu v Praze považuji za jedno z nejhorších 😕, a to opravdu můžu srovnávat… ✌️⠀
#travel #instamoment #instapic #skyview #view #views #beautifulview #skyplane #courtesancz #elitecourtesancz #plane #clouds #skyplane #myspicypassionlife #secretlife #happygirl #goodvibes
💯 ❤️💕 #loveyourself #sexpositive
When is the best time for sex? Early birds rejoice! Not only are testosterone and energy levels higher in the morning, but the increase in oxytocin levels keeps you and your partner bonded throughout the day while the endorphins boost your mood. Not a bad way to start the day, huh? ⠀
Love is a taste of paradise
Ladies, are you having trouble telling your lover how exactly you want it? Fill and send him this genius form by @odotschool.
Men, ask your wives to fill this so you know what she actually wants.
Let's make the orgasm gap smaller 🙌🏾 What other sections/options would you like to see on this form?
Be sure to come back tonight at 9PM WAT for Birth Control 101 on Instagram live.
It’s my calling to help empower and educate women for safer and more satisfying experiences - because many are not being taught at any age that
PLEASURE IS YOUR RIGHT. It’s everyone’s right during sexual experiences with consenting partner(s) or solo!
to some #Pleasure
(Get ready for all the feels....) #ThrowbackThursday
to my favourite parade of the year: #winnipegpride
Pride always signifies the beginning of summer for me; an opportunity to express myself & absorb the energy of the city as we come out of hibernation. The positive vibes shared in the community and compassion-filled support of every person there always pumps me up and generates tons of new ideas and excitement. 🌟
And boy - was the summer of 2018 ever a pinnacle of that sensation! Can you say ch-ch-ch-changes?! 🌟
Never in my life have four short months generated so much transformation not just for me, but literally everyone around me. 🌟
New jobs, new passions, new perspectives, new homes, new countries, new connections, new experiences. 🌟
It was wild, and it was rocky, it was sad and hard and emotional but also joyous and incredible and amazing and awe inspiring. And we’ve only just begun. 🌟
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger. 💪
It’s pretty cool to say that knowing that every single person around you is already stronger than they were four months ago. That they’re going through this crazy transformation. 🌟
I feel like, just as everyone shows up to pride with their bells on, bright and sparkly and dressed up ready to dazzle the world after hiding all winter; everyone I know is just starting to emerge from their own personal period of hibernation. Whether it was 5 weeks or 5 years, this summer awakened their soul. It changed them. 🌟
My friends, we are emerging from our chrysalis. 🐛
What kind of sparkly butterfly will you be on the other side? 🦄 ✨ 💕 🦋 💫 .
Photo cred @hcortens
#transformation #personalgrowth #empowering #sexpositive #bodypositive #loveislove #mentalhealth #lifeonpurpose #abundantliving #fightthestigma #trainup
#development #startagain #changes #theroadlesstravelled #keepongoing #nolookingback #wegotthis
to b-Vibe brand ambassador Tracy Felder’s Q&A with @ean.online
What did she have to say about the taboos surrounding sex toys? 💙 “I see society as a fiery ball of continuous energy — sort of like, well, the sun. There is always something too hot or too taboo to talk about, and yet, we will stare at it in awe without sunglasses. There’s always a fine line between something being taboo and interesting because it’s taboo, and something being normalized and still maintaining the passion and intrigue that’s required to encourage education and a deeper understanding.
I think it’s really important that we stop sensationalizing sex and various subject surrounding it, and really dig into the nuance that should come with any discussion surrounding sexuality. This is where, I think, we are now with sex in our society — really honing in on the grey areas and acknowledging that labeling things as black and white is only ever harmful.
Obviously, of course, there are some people who still feel that sex toys and sex positivity overall are problematic, and there’s a lot of education that’s still needed around these points. That said, I’ve realized that as long as you remain confident, kind, and open — people are almost always looking for the permission to discuss sexuality, and I’m in a really prime place to call people into this discussion in a positive, progressive way.” #throwbackthursday #sexpositive #sexeducation #sexualwellness #bvibe #officialsmartass #analismagic
I need to return my library books 📚