As I sip my coffee today on my 34th birthday, I’m flipping through photos of the years. There’s been a lot of changes in the past 6 years from age 28-34 but mostly internally! The only difference between my age 28 photo and now 34 physically is blonde hair, hair extensions, LESS MAKEUP, and strip lashes(Botox yes but I’ve been doing that since I was 28🙈). I’m even heavier NOW than I was at 28 but I feel more radiant and beautiful than I HAVE EVER FELT, on the INSIDE, which is reflecting on the OUTSIDE. If you’ve ever seen the movie “I feel pretty” maybe it’s kind of like that haha. The “me” until I became self employed really didn’t give two Fs about other people but gave EVERY thought into what others thought about her. When I opened my business I realized the value of being a friend, I realized the selfless help mentality and the moment I broke the chains of needing money or people and looked at it all as bonus is where everything fell into place. I make more now than I ever did in the corporate world and I have more friends than ever and I don’t give two Fs what you think about how I live my life. Do you see the stuff I post in my story?! 😂. If I was concerned with what you think or judgement, I wouldn’t post it. What I care about is helping YOU become your BEST you, selflessly. Sometimes that means I lose money by giving you free advice but that is who I am to my CORE! Im a helper and a healer (look up personality types that get degrees in psychology, we are helpers and healers). Am I driven by a life of financial freedom, YES, but so I can GIVE back and then some. I want to be able to help those who can’t buy gifts at Christmas or put a meal on their table. To my own kids (if I have them- who knows what’s happening with that), adopted kids, step kids, family, whatever direction life takes me I just want to be that someone that when those that I love turn to me and want to fulfill their dreams to better themselves, I can be the mom, auntie, wife, whatever the heck title that God ends up placing on my life that say YES vs “no sweetie, we can’t afford that”. Cheers to binding a foundation on a rock, brick by flipping brick! This house is going to hold FIRM!