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I am not sure should I tell the chicken the truth although it may hurt. Whenever she turns her back the rooster immediately starts eye flirtation. #sistosis #loyalwomen #turnyourback #flirt #classic #attention #relationships #rooster #countrysideliving #stare #cheating #couples #singles #loyalty #masculino flirtation #nature #lovelyfinland #animals #eyemakeup #bottomsup #countryside #finnishdesign #honest #icanttakemyeyesoffyou
Just a message for myself and anyone else with fitness goals that you sometimes struggle to achieve. And by the way, I'm mad at myself for not buying this shirt in every color. Whenever I wear this shirt it really does end up being a good day. #bestdayever
M O V E M E N T N O T M O M E N T S #stressdownfriday As a therapist, I specialise in patterns. I lean towards a therapeutic model called Dynamic Interpersonal Therapy, which is a brief psychodynamic model based on attachment theory and relationship theories. It looks for patterns in your relationships with others, historically and in the present, and how they might be impacting on your mood and ways of relating to the world. ___________ When I was training and started talking to parents it made me wonder if catastrophes can happen literally overnight. Of course people talk about very difficult histories, which they survived with bravery. But people also talk about one thing their parents did or said that shifted their mindset. That one time you were called ‘stupid’, or that one time your mum left the house after an argument. The one incident. Like you can just break a child, just like that, into feeling bad about themselves. ___________________ But I quickly realised (thankfully!) that those ‘one things’ were always the tip of the iceberg. They reflected more general patterns, which built up to create meaning. That one ‘stupid’ reflected a general sense of being treated as incapable. The one time your mum left was reflected in her need to absent herself from your difficult emotions. It wasn’t about the one thing, it was about all the one things that joined together and gave someone a message about themselves and their place in the world. __________ As parents, we stress a lot about the one things. They’re the things that we reflect on in the evening and keep us up at night. But actually we need to look at the direction in which we’re moving. We won’t always get it right, but as long as we’re moving in the right direction, we’re doing ok. __________ *if you’re reading this and feeling that those patterns are very powerful for you, and you’re not moving in the direction you want to, you might want to read my blog ‘ghost busting’ (on my website). Feel free to get in touch if it raises ideas or concerns for you.
Thoughts on Love . 16. Conscious coupling . @sahilmane arrives in Goa this morning 🤩! (Unfortunately, I’m too ill to pick him up from the station 😕.) I remember another time he joined me in Goa… The year was 2014. I had been shooting here, and had stayed back so he could join me and we’d make a holiday of it. I’d finished early in the morning, around the time S’s bus was supposed to arrive. But it was many hours late, the AC had broken down, he’d had a miserable time. . I was waiting for him as he stepped off the bus into the blazing noon sun at Mapusa. Both of us remember the feeling of acute relief that washed over us at the sight of each other. So long as we’re together, who cares about the weather…? As we drove home in the cab, he asked to stop for something to drink, for Thums Up and Kings. “Don’t worry, baby, it’s all waiting for you at home.” And it was. I’d gone out with a pilot rider that morning; and had bought him the soft drink that he was then a drinker of and beer that is a quintessentially Goa thing. I’d left the AC running. 😎 . I felt a sense of joy and accomplishment to have *exactly* anticipated what he would want. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you put another before you—no. It is mutually seeing happiness in their happiness, and therefore anticipating and, sometimes, prioritising their needs. But it’s important that it works both ways. If you’re constantly depositing in the love bank, and the other person isn’t, a sense of disquiet and unhappiness sets in. Ask me, I know. . S is a great, gentle, kind human being 😇, as an absolute; with the bar set so low for what we consider ‘good’ men, he shines in comparison. This also meant that when we first got together, he thought he could just show up and be. Lives, however, do not run on love and fresh air. 🙄To receive you have to give; equally important, to give you have to receive. Don’t take each other or yourself for granted. . Anyway, he’s almost here. Looking forward to another great holiday over the next week. 😃 . Link below. Struggling with relationships? DM me! . #feminist #feministman #marriage #feministmarriage #relationships #relationshipgoals #love #loveadvice #grateful
Англичан хлебом не корми, дай что-нибудь поисследовать👩🏼‍🏫. Так я оказалась в группе, где один из таких изыскателей в юбке изучала вопрос адаптации иммигрантов. Она то мне и поведала о стадиях сего мероприятия. Дабы вы не заскучали под натиском заумных терминов🤓, разберёмся на примере отношения класса «стерпится - слюбится» между сердобольным юношей и девушкой семейства «чикуль». . «...Окрылённый Алёшенька, сойдя с трапа самолёта, ступил на землю чужестранную, да как увидал диво дивное, чудо чудное, так и влюбился беспамятства в красну девицу заморскую🧝🏼‍♀️. Вскоре провёл Алёшенька ночку бурную с красавицей заморской, да как узрел на утро, что личина-то девицы деланная, а под ней прячется колдунья басурманская🧟‍♀️. Долго не мог Алёшенька смириться со страшным обманом. Из стороны в сторону мечется, места себе не найдёт, а душа болит, сердце ноет, не бросать же окаянную🤦🏻‍♂️. Уразумел Алёшенька, что не красота ценность-то имеет, а нутро человеческое, и сердце его отлегло. И жил он долго и счастливо пусть с ведьмой, но ненаглядной💏...» . Как это работает на деле адаптации?🤓 . 🍃ЭЙФОРИЯ (стадия №1) 💭Ничоси! Страна единорогов и Несси! И весь город пахнет вискарем! . 🍂КУЛЬТУРНЫЙ ШОК (стадия №2) 💭Wi Fi не работает из-за дождя?!? Да хватит уже 100500 раз извиняться! Скучаю по маминой оливьешке... . 🍃ПРИМИРЕНИЕ (стадия №3) 💭Ого, медицина абсолютно бесплатная. Да и шмотки тут выгоднее покупать. . 🍃ИНТЕГРАЦИЯ (стадия №4) 💭Ну все, могу и дорогу в неположенном месте перейти, и в очереди постоять. . Я переехала 6 месяцев назад и пока застряла между 2ой и 3ей стадиями😅 Убедила, что переезд в другую страну - дело это не легкое? . . . . #photography #scotland #instagood #livingston #uk #girl #accessories #blonde #photooftheday #eyes #lips #beauty #ksyu_ank_notes #шотландия #ливингстон #великобритания #адаптация #культурныйшок #эйфория #отношения #relationships #jokes #шутка
“When you were a wandering desire in the mist, I too was there, a wandering desire. Then we sought one another, and out of our eagerness dreams were born. And dreams were time limitless, and dreams were space without measure.” – Khalil Gibran’s The Forerunner #gibran #khalilgibran #gebrankhalilgebran #love #dreams #spirit #life #relationships #art #artist #beauty #blackandwhite #painting #livelovelebanon #insta_lebanon #livelovebcharre #whatsuplebanon
Promises, Promises. ➖➖➖➖➖ written for #herheartforms #proseheart - write a prose piece and use a fruit in describing yourself ➖➖➖➖➖ words written using @mytypewriterapp 💜 ➖➖➖➖➖ ▪️Featured on numerous poetry sites ▪️UntwineMe April 2018 Top 50 Instapoets ▪️Published as featured/cover story in Dweller's Post issue of DigitInk Magazine ➖➖➖➖➖ #breathwords #ashleyjane #loveliesandlullabies #septemberfalls18 #sapphireseas #apricotsandasters #ourpoetryjourneysep18 #septcmchallenge #poeticsighs #prose #mytypewriterapp #typewriterpoetry #poetry #poetryisnotdead #herheartpoetry #relationships #promise
We are honoured to announce that Sesh Sukhdeo will be speaking on How to unlock wealth through collaboration at the launching of the Forest Hill Branch on 6 October. Over the course of his career, Sesh Sukhdeo has assembled countless engagements and collaborative projects around the globe at all levels across the public and private sectors. Sesh has spoken at events around the world and his insights on cooperative engagement and the paradigm shifts it creates have made a widespread difference regarding the thorniest problems we face on the path to development. He speaks not as a theorist, but as a hands-on practitioner. Collaborative dialogue comes naturally to Sesh. He is always prepared to share his knowledge and drive with others. Striving to make a difference, he sees beyond the horizon, and tries to guide others towards the value that they miss. During his career, Sesh has come to realize that many individuals have simply never realized the benefits of cooperative problem-solving and the value of genuine collaboration. Rather than working in tandem with others, they find themselves having to overcome unnecessary obstacles alone. They operate within rigid hierarchies that stall their progress and reduce their creativity. When asked how it is that he can unlock value and overcome those barriers to cooperation when others cannot—and why it is that some people can engage with others quickly and naturally, while others seem unable to do so—Sesh Sukhdeo has an answer. He believes the solution to effective collaboration lies in the balance of motivation and state of mind. Therefore, it is essential to find a common thread that will resonate with the various levels of skill, intents, and experiences of those involved. This process and system are Sesh Sukhdeo's area of expertise. #collaboration #relationships #relationshipsgoals #influencer #expertise #workingtogether #problems #solutions #genuine
Because frankly, who wants to feel like they are settling? Find someone who loves you for being you, and who makes you smile to yourself when you're not even realising. #lovelumen ⠀ ⠀ #love #relationshipgoals #relationships #romance #dating #datingapp #fabulousandfifty #fiftyplus #onlinedating #matchmaker #lovequotes
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Happy Friday! Three books you should read regardless of your relationship status 📚 check it out in the link in bio 🔍 • • • • #Books #Read #InstaBooks #Reading #Relationships #LoveLanguage #Bookstagram #MustRead #HollyBlog
One for the dates: I absolutely love this quote from @dollyalderton ❤️ ▫️ My thoughts exactly. Don't go searching for someone else to make you happy or 'complete' you. Live your life, do things that make you happy, meet people along the way, have hope and who knows what opportunities will arise! ▫️ #thirtysomething
Love is a universal language which we all speak and it also solves most relationship issues. Walk in love towards someone today. #love #relationships
Bring on the weekend #simpleart #simplyyou
Card Reading for Today 🌸Timing can be different for each person 🌸💖🌺 Limited Edition✨Cards on Sale @ www.amiracelon.com Text readings on instantgo app - https://www.instantgo.com/amiracelon These cards were created for you to use for getting uncanny insights into love, dating and other current themes. Get some in your hands and Enjoy 😊 Full videos on my YouTube channel - link is in the bio ☝️ #aloha #mystic #Singapore #mysticmessenger #california #love #namaste #tarot #healing #energy #goddess #twinflame #angels #relationships #psychic #canada #usa #positiveenergy #yoga #dubai
“And before you ask her why she stayed, look at the way a caged bird sometimes refuses to leave, even when its cage door is wide open Even when you call it softly. Even when you try to take it Out of its prison to set it free. And perhaps then you will understand.” -why she stayed @nikita_gill #photography #nature #roses #butterfly #writersofinstagram #candles #serenity #domesticviolence #toxicrelationships #cage #freedom #happiness #home #love #relationships #habits #comfortzone #inspirationalquotes #wellness #patience #tolerance #abuse #picoftheday #instamoods
You can’t live a positive life with a negative mindset, but how do you start to challenge negative thinking patterns? In today’s video, I speak about the most common thinking errors that people make. Can you spot any patterns in your thinking? Check out the full video via my Facebook page (link in bio) 👍 💜#friday #morning #motivation #selfhelp #happy #love #joy #counselling #psychology #coaching #videooftheday #positive #emotions #mentalhealth #negativethinking #positive #mindset #mentalhealthawareness #wellbeing #selflove #empower #relationships #drrinabajaj
To dive deeper into the importance of #relationships , especially the one you have with yourself, #ResultsRadio brought on an amazing #expert : Tanya-Marie Dubé! Listen here: yourresultsradio.com/37
• MY PARTNER HELPS ME • It’s often said that the women is the Mum therefore she should do EVERYTHING for her children . I hate this . Mum and dad = both equally partners in ALL areas . My partner helps do night feeds , he helps me cook , he helps put the kids in bed , he lets me go take a 30min shower every night. In most people’s eyes this is totally frowned upon because I’m the Mum! But not only does this help me with my mental state it helps me appreciate my family even more. We both created this children therefore I don’t see anything wrong with this and I believe that this is healthy for the kids and for our relationship. Does your partner help you? 🖤 #aussiesofinstagram #aussiemumbloggers #26weeks #spillthebeans #parents
All you need is love. . Have you read The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman? It’s a classic staple for sure! What’s your love language? There’s a free quiz online, just google love language quiz; it’s a game changer! . My primary two are words of affirmation and quality time, but the others are all very close, too. And my custom love language is surprises! I love a good surprise- gift, experience, anything. Anything that means I don’t have to plan or organize anything myself, and also I get to go on an adventure?! Yes please! 🙋🏻‍♀️🏆 . How about your fam and friends? Do you know their love language? Have you ever thought about what makes you feel loved, and do you go out of your way to do something that means a lot to somebody, when that same thing wouldn’t have the same effect on you? It takes so much effort to start thinking about relationships like that! What do you think? . #allyouneedislove #lovelanguages #snuggles #rescuedogsofinstagram #liveauthentic #garychapman #relationships #selfreflection #growthmindset #knowledgeispower #readabook #feedyourmind
Sometimes I feel an obligation to be accessible as a personality, but for me the driving force since the beginning has always been good work, taking risks, trying new things. If the door opens, go through it. Always go forward. . . . . . . . #successquotes #rank #imarketslive #platinum #successfulwomen #wealth #moneygram #doorstories #doortosuccess #takingrisks #marketing #networkmarketing #socialmediamarketing #happiness #instagood #instagram #love #leadership #family #team #relationships #trading #forexlife #lahore #karachi #islamabad #pakistan
Я ахуел, когда понял, что поцеловать тебя я хочу больше, чем переспать...⠀ .⠀ .⠀ .⠀ 👑 Подпишись ⬇⠀ @perfecto.man@perfecto.man@perfecto.man#мотивация #цитатник #мужскойканал #мужскиецитаты #мудрыеслова #Мысли #УмныеМысли #truth #wisdom #relationships #girlsandboys #girls
The only place to be this weekend.
You Are Not A Great Match With Everyone 🤷🏻‍♀️ . Here’s a Thursday reminder that your friendships should make you feel good about yourself, supported and loved. . Just to be clear, it isn’t anyone’s JOB to MAKE you feel that way and it’s not something to be demanded, but if any of your friendships consistently make you feel down on yourself, always criticised, not valued, judged, constantly misunderstood, like something is wrong with you, or you simply keep feeling like something is just “off” about the “vibes” you’re getting, it may be time to reevaluate whether those relationships are adding value to your life or draining your energy. . With intimate relationships/dating, we are usually aware that it’s normal and OK for things to grow apart or that some people are just not a good match for us anymore. With friendships, it sometimes feels like you should be able to make it work forever, especially if the friendship has been around for a while. . However, it’s completely normal for people to develop in different directions or to simply be on different wavelengths from the start or after some time. That doesn’t mean that anything has gone wrong, that something is wrong with YOU or that the other person is “toxic”. . When you feel uncomfortable in a friendship or like you can’t be your true self then that situation might not be right for you at this time. It’s not about whether or not the other person is consciously doing something to make you feel bad, or if it’s just something that feels “off” to you for whatever reason - you don’t have to stick with something that makes you feel bad just because it has been going on for a while. . Sometimes it’s worth just getting a bit of distance and seeing how you feel. If the friendship really was right for you, you can most likely come back to it. If you notice yourself feeling much better without it - well, there’s your answer. . We can get so held up on rational thought and on overanalyzing the right and wrong or who did what. Listening to the way something makes you FEEL and becoming clear on what your preferred feeling would be can sometimes be the only answer you need.❤🙂
я восхищён людьми, которые не позволяют никому вмешиваться в их жизнь. они сами ищут истину, формируя себя по частям, не обращая внимания на удивлённые и осуждающие взгляды окружающих. эти люди сочетают в себе многогранность. обычно их считают безумцами, но эти люди любят жизнь, и она отвечает им взаимностью, отдавая все, что идёт в руки. #love #loves #couple #couples #adorable #kiss #kisses #hug #hugs #romance #heart #hearts #forever #instagramanet #girlfriend #girlfriends #boyfriend #boyfriends #gf #bf #bff #together #instalove #russianwomen #loveher #lovehim #relationship #relationships #amour
..но в земной жизни мне не нужно совершенство. мой идеал всегда будет заключаться в загадке. в моей Энигме. в неидеальной, но настоящей девушке, что как океан, полна тайн. потому что она единственная, кого я не способен «читать», как остальных! #love #loves #couple #couples #adorable #kiss #kisses #hug #hugs #romance #heart #hearts #forever #instagramanet #girlfriend #girlfriends #boyfriend #boyfriends #gf #bf #bff #together #instalove #russianwomen #loveher #lovehim #relationship #relationships #amour
до тех пор, пока у женщины не случился роман с самой собой, каждый мужчина будет для нее всего лишь психотерапевтом, пытающимся излечить ее от неприятия самой себя и страха остаться одной. истинная, глубокая Любовь, возникает из состояния наполненности собой. тогда Любовь к мужчине родится в своем высшем проявлении - как дарение себя ему, а не как отчаянная попытка быть кому-то нужной, чтобы ощутить собственную полноценность. #love #loves #couple #couples #adorable #kiss #kisses #hug #hugs #romance #heart #hearts #forever #instagramanet #girlfriend #girlfriends #boyfriend #boyfriends #gf #bf #bff #together #instalove #russianwomen #loveher #lovehim #relationship #relationships #amour
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