WHAT IS EDGING
All the #sexy
blogs and magazines are talking about #edging
, What is edging? Edging is sometimes known as #orgasmcontrol
when it’s done by your partner with the intent to control when, how and sometimes how intensely you can #cum
. However, you can experiment with edging yourself if you’re so inclined.
WHAT IS EDGING GOOD FOR?
Bringing yourself to the precipice of #orgasm
and backing off, especially if you can do it repeatedly, can lead to more intense orgasms and more gratifying release (more tips on that here). As a woman, edging might be easier than if you were a man, who can have a more difficult time preventing themselves from #cumming
Get ready to spend more time #masturbating
or having #sex
if you want to try edging. This isn’t about the #quickie
or keeping your eye on the goal (orgasm). Edging can be done alone or with the help of your partner, which makes it especially fun. Orgasm control at your partner’s hands allows him to better understand your body, which increases #intimacy
just like cuddling or a long talk might. Plus, you never know when you’ll be able to cum if your man takes the reigns!
But edging isn’t for everyone. Some people find it frustrating. This may be the case if backing off from orgasm causes you to miss that window of opportunity, only to lose your orgasm during the session completely. You may also have to start over, without any of the residual buildup. Every body is different, which is why it’s so important to pay attention to yours. You know best!
Edging might be easier at some times rather than others, which is perfectly okay. Although you might want to encourage it, some sessions won’t be conducing to the prolonged orgasm. It’s okay to let that goal go for another time. After all, what is edging helping if it’s only causing disappointment?