| A D V I C E | Good advice is always a plus, but it’s amazing how easily we become lost in the advice of others. .
You have something amazing happen to you, and the moment you share the news, everyone is on your front door with their two cents worth. .
Although it’s nice to have supportive people around you, at the end of the day; acknowledge how you feel about the matter, what are your values in this? How would YOU like to conduct yourself...even if sometimes you receive a “that’s stupid” or “you’re crazy” attitude from others...which can make you doubt yourself and end up making the wrong, accidental or rash decisions for a time, (or all of the above) until you can spend time on you enough to hear yourself think and then come back to balance in your core and your respectful attitude. All you can do is your best and your best changes everyday #fouragreements
. Ultimately it’s not their decision to make and your inner voice, that’s the most important. .
You know what’s good for you, and how much you can handle in life, and not only that, it’s not worth offending something truly incredible and risking your values, ethics and your spirit over. .only for you to regret it later and be truly, intensely sorry...we all make mistakes and are human, so there’s no point in being hard on yourself or others.
There’s nothing but regret in potentially hurting someone else when you don’t make your gut and heart decisions though. You’ve got more to gain by doing what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do, so it’s important to remain firm in these moments with others and continually better at it everyday until you master it.
Universe knows best. .
Everything always works out in the end anyway. 🌼 #lettherebelight
have a great weekend everyone! :)