The girl who caught the flowers
An English tradition has the newly-wed wife toss her bouquet over her head to all the single ladies, so that the one who catches it (that’s what the superstition says), will be next in line to get married.
Well, I just caught the bouquet!
Let me introduce you to her. She is single, 36, with currently no single date in her calendar, without a regular lover. Without as much as a prospect to finally achieve the happily ever after and the clock indeed is ticking.
But how can she be single? She’s gorgeous! What’s wrong with her? But isn’t she sad? Isn’t she bored or unhappy? She might say “I don't have time for a guy right now” or “there is no one out there for me” or “guys suck!”, ever found yourself think like that? All of it is complete BS by the way. What she really wants to say is: It’s really not my priority at the moment! I do not want to invest my time in finding my mate. Her priority is SHE, herself. She just learned to be on her own. She just found pleasure in solitude. She feels more connected to herself than ever and she is not yet ready to share that space with anyone else yet, UNLESS the guy would be an exceptional match.
Being single and being frustrated is sad. It is boring. It is hopeless. But being single by choice is uplifting, empowering and exciting. Don’t get me wrong. I do want a lifetime love. I am a romantic. I believe that there is someone out there for me that I will choose over all other potential ones. But I am not desperate to get there. Right now, I am busy with loving the heck out of myself and once I am done with filling my cup, I’ll gladly share my overflow with someone special.
Until then, I’ll keep catching flowers.
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