Transformation Tuesday 😢 . . . "Sniff*
Growing up isn't exactly the same as transforming but I want to talk about family for a sec and that's cute ❤
Family. There are 2 kinds, the kind you pick and the kind you don't. My brother and I didn't pick each other I kinda just crashed his party 15 months later and had to chill #noregrets
and sometimes we were happier about that than others lol but that's family!!! The people you love the most are often the ones that cause you the most grief because, well, you love them the most haha the family you don't choose also has more likeliness to be totally different than you there for are harder to get along with. Me and Connor butt heads even today like you would not believe 🙈 not because we don't like eachother we're just TOTALLY different people!!! But because of the family part, differences don't matter!!
Family you choose. These are your amigos, the bros, the ride or dies you crossed paths with at some point and said, you're like me. We are family now. This family is often who you spend most of your time with, talk to a bunch, have EVERYTHING in common with because you gravitated toward each other for the similarities you share. Makes sense right? Now these people though, these people tend to come and go. Sad as it is, unlike your blood family when a dispute pops up between chosen family members there's nothing binding them together. Not nothing but you know what I mean haha if my brother and I had a fight he didn't go, you're not my sister anymore!! Thats not a thing. Which is great because I'd have been an only child a long time ago 😂 Chosen family can do that though. So its interesting, the bond can be so so much stronger within a group you assembled yourself because of the similarities you share but also very fragile. •
Anyway, family is family. Chosen or blood. One is really no more "important" than the other and my real point here is to cherish the people in your life as if they may not be there tomorrow. •
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