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Hope is a dangerous thing 🍒 #me #cutie #narcissists
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👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨Narcissism👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 Happy Mental Health Monday! This week’s topic is narcissism, which, simply put, is when a person thinks extremely highly of themselves, and it can manifest into some pretty nasty abusive behaviors. @tededucation does a great job of covering the basics in this video: ~ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=arJLy3hX1E8 ~ #mingledvitality #teded #tededucation #mentalhealthmonday #mentalhealthmondays #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealtheducation #mentalhealthhelp #mentalhelp #narcissist #narcissism #narcissismawareness #narcissists #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #npd #npdawareness #npdsurvivor #npdvictim #mentaldisorder #mentaldisorders #mentaldisorderawareness #personalitydisorder #personalitydisorders #personalitydisorderawareness #abuse #emotionalabuse #abusive #abusiverelationship #abusiverelationships
It takes a long time before you finally understand that a Narcissist is just a pointless, human sink hole. All the love you pour into him or her just disappears without a trace. . . . . . . #narcissists #entitled #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcopath #narcism #manchild #codependent #betteralone #isolated #healingfromabuse #anniekaszina #healingjourney #knowyourworthladies #toxicpeople #emotionalabuse
It's better than okay to muffle the noise from people who only know of complaining and not rectifying. People can affect your healthy outlook on life if you allow them. Know your limits. #silence #stopthebs #narcissists #pessimists #staygolden #positivity
Abuse is not love. Never was, never will be. The Narcissists would like us to think so, though. They constantly claim that they say and do these things because they love us and want us to be better or get better. "I yell at you because I love you" or "I only hit because I don't know how else to tell you I love you" are NOT love. Abuse is not love, my friends. #ffnaea #narcissist #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #narcabuse #abuse #emotionalabuse #npd #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #abuseisnotlove #manipulation
Narcissistic Rages are a scary thing. They can turn on a dime. Go from pleasant to a rage-a-holic within seconds. When in a Narc Rage, they become frightening. The NX would get so red in the face and so angry, that I cowered. I froze. If I dared to scream back, he'd yell louder and claim I was abusing him. He'd scream so loud that he'd become hard to understand! Those moments were the scariest. #ffnaea #narcissist #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #narcabuse #abuse #narcissisticrage #narcrage #npd #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #emotionalabuse #narcsarescary #narcissistsarescary
Reposted from @narcissists_kill_joy - It's mind boggling, hurting, shocking, and draining what the narcissist( men or women)puts you through, but once you've acquired knowledge and understanding of who they are and why they do and act how they do; you'll begin to heal and take your power back. . . #narcissists #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #malignantnarcissists #narcissisticabuse #sociopaths #psychopaths #brainwired #lackempathy #grandiosepersonality #lackselfawareness #lackfear #lackintergrity #liars #manipulators #conartists #jekyllandhyde #cheaters #lovebomb #idealize #devalue #discard #gaslighting #crazymaking #emotionalvampires #evil #saveyourself #gonocontact - #regrann
Psychological abusers use these methods to get victims to bond with them, as in trauma bonding. It is a way to insure victims stay by getting them addicted to the perpetrator.
⠀ ⠀ ⠀ he held out his hand inviting her to dance another dysfunctional dance where they recreated their childhood dysfunction under the guise of passionate romance she would be his overbearing mother suffocating him with her emotions burying him under her demands drowning him with her devotion he would be her absent father selfishness as his only creed she would try to earn his love and passively follow his lead but the dance was getting old and the rhythm was so repetitive she knew where it would start and where it would go and her heart was no longer receptive so she looked into his eyes knowing her eyes were enough this time and she simply said goodbye maybe another dance maybe next time ⠀ ⠀
It was early this morning that it dawned on me that my eldest daughter (who is doing her father in terms of her karma) would never get the problem her younger sister, (with same father) has got. The eldest is striving to achieve peaceful, equal relationships,as indicated by her north node in libra and the make up she has going on astrologically makes this difficult as her Pluto in Scorpio in her first house with her Scorpio ascendant ensures she does not get “dominated “.Thats being polite, as it’s in this department her father has left a lot outstanding that has come to her to resolve. Although having had numerous relationships he has yet to find a partner who he has not coerced, manipulated and dominated. My second daughter is doing me in terms of karma and yet again she needs to find an equal, peaceful and harmonious relationship, this is why I left my dominating ex, her father. As little girls get to partner men like their fathers she’s has found herself in the same bind as I had all those years before and her latest boyfriend has shown himself to be a “carbon copy” of her narcissistic father with his control (insecurity) problems. So both of my daughters have the same thing going on, as in they both need to find the missing libra, one needs not to dominate and the other one needs not to be dominated. It’s all about balance.#narcissists #controlissues #inequality #dominate #orbedominated # #plutovenus #librascorpio #powerstruggles #karma #ancestralresidues #followinginline #bringingresolution #
repost from @dr_anniephd Why do we try to make a Narcissist love us? For a lot of us, we are unconsciously repeating an old pattern - trying to make someone see us, and value us and love us. Double tap if that has been your experience, too. . . #codependent #unloveable #unloved #isolated #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcism #manchild #narcknowledge #narcabuse #lowselfesteem #selflove #anniekaszina #healingfromabuse #triggers #knowyourworthladies #narcissists
Why do we try to make a Narcissist love us? For a lot of us, we are unconsciously repeating an old pattern - trying to make someone see us, and value us and love us. Double tap if that has been your experience, too. . . . . . #codependent #unloveable #unloved #isolated #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuse #narcism #manchild #narcknowledge #narcabuse #lowselfesteem #selflove#anniekaszina #healingfromabuse #triggers #knowyourworthladies #narcissists
It's when you give and don't wait for smth to be pleased for what you've given, cause in the case of love nobody owes you shit. It's when you don't wait for "thank you". Really. No thanks. Would you give anything that the person wants knowing that you won't get any thanks? You won't get any "It's so nice of you! You're so kind!" You won't get any cookies or any smiles! Nothing! And no hopes for getting all these later. Will you give it anyway? Well, it's kind of knowing that the flower that you're going to take care of for a long time will die or it's like a bird that you've been taking care of until it flies away. It's the same with people. But when it comes to human relationships I see nothing like that. If they were taking care of you and then you went away they can't believe you're so ungrateful. I met many people who thought that if they helped me, I should also help them...well maybe a should have paid?? So it would've been a service. Is love some kind of service? No. I'm so angry with people who raised me. It was too painful when I realized that all my life they used to do me a favour by giving me life, feeding me and taking care of me. And now they think I should pay them back and be their slave til the end of my life, they think I owe them for my existing. This is their mindset. It makes me sick and I hardly accept this. But it's fcking true. This is what I see behind the lies and their sugarcoated words. When I was a child and a teenager I didn't understand what's wrong, why I felt unhappy unloved and ashamed just for being born and being alive. People can't be happy and raise happy children expecting something from them. It's greed and using which is opposite to love. How can a person live a happy life when everything he/she gets from his/her family should be paid back. When you know that somebody expects something from you because they love you and you should be thankful and do what they told you to do. I was naive. I didn't know that some people just can't love, they can only use, and I would've never thought that about my family or friends. Now I know. I finally know.#bpd #narcissists #love #loveyourself #daily #borderlinepersonalitydisorder
COVERT NARCISSISTS Narcissistic personality disorder is on a spectrum and there are also different types. Many people think a narcissist is an overly confident individual with delusions of grandeur and whilst this can be an overt narcissist, there is also a dangerous and hidden narcissist called a covert narcissist. I’ve attached three friends through my life who were covert narcissists who played the victim yet very manipulative and controlling. My ex husband was also a covert and I believe that I was a magnet to covert narcissists as they play the victim so well leaving me feeling sorry for them and as a codependent empath, wanting to help. None are friends now and I’m divorced but in all cases especially my ex husband, it nearly broke me. Boundaries are key in any relationship and understanding what a healthy relationship is be can be a great starting #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissistic #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissism #narcissists #covertnarcissist #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuselifecoach #narcissisticabusesurvivor #femaleentrepreneur #femaleentreprenuer #bossbabes #bossbabe #womeninbusinessrock #divorcecoach #narcissisticabuserecovery #empathsbelike #positivepsychology #bestsellingauthor #coach
You really don’t need anyone’s approval - except your own. When you have that, you have enduring peace of mind. So, focus on giving yourself your own approval. Repost from@# @themindgeek . . . . . #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissists #codependent #perfectionism #lowselfesteem #selflove#empaths #healingfromabuse #knowyourworthladies #judgementalpeople #narcism #toxicpeople #healingjourney #isolated #mentalabuse #mentalabusesurvivor
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I fell in love with your mask The one you wore to hide your chaos Showing the world a side of you That was nowhere near the truth Like a vampire you sucked me dry Never satisfied until I cried I fell in love with your mask The one you wore to hide your crazy Freedom it comes from the pain Like the rainbow appears after the rain I fell in love with your mask The one you wore when you were sorry #mask #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #narcissists #art #rosetheraven #thecultivatedfool #thewriteplace #writerscommunity #writersofinstagram #poetry #prose
Ever met a #pathologicalliar ?? I have... Lol definitely have. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #boybye#thankyounext #stopplaying #liarsgonnalie #lolimgood #narcissists #sociopaths
I’ve spent this weekend self isolating and trying to soothe myself. I’m okay. • Learning that you’ve been lied to by the person you gave your heart to sucks. Learning that he’d been sleeping with a mutual “friend” for the past four years sucks even more. The kicker is at first, he denied it, and then he tried to convince me that I already knew about it. Not all men are trash, but this one is. 🚮 • Don’t defend him to me, don’t be mad that I’m talking about it or that I’m airing dirty laundry about a “nice guy.” Be mad that he’s a shit human being and that you fell for his narcissistic charm. I know I am.
It's mind boggling, hurting, shocking, and draining what the narcissist( men or women)puts you through, but once you've acquired knowledge and understanding of who they are and why they do and act how they do; you'll begin to heal and take your power back. . . #narcissists #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #malignantnarcissists #narcissisticabuse #sociopaths #psychopaths #brainwired #lackempathy #grandiosepersonality #lackselfawareness #lackfear #lackintergrity #liars #manipulators #conartists #jekyllandhyde #cheaters #lovebomb #idealize #devalue #discard #gaslighting #crazymaking #emotionalvampires #evil #saveyourself #gonocontact
The Silent Treatment is a favourite tool in the Narcissist’s armory. It serves to keep you guessing as to the exact nature of your sin, punishes you, makes you feel utterly unlovable and leads you to dread what happens when they finally open their mouth. They may, or may not take to sleeping in another room during the Silent Treatment. In reality, their behavior is both cruel and infantile. Double tap if it is a tactic that you, too, know all too well. . . . . . #manipulators #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #manipulators #narcissisticabusesurvivor #mentalabuse #narcism #silenttreatment #codependent #narcknowledge #manchild #entitled #betteralone #selfesteemissues #healingfromabuse #anniekaszina #knowyourworthladies #isolation
The #narcissist (and probable #sociopath ) who abused me once called the police to complain that I had posted my baby scan on social media. True story. [He was desperately trying to hide the fact he was about to become a dad because he was a) lying to his family & pretending I didn’t even exist and b) grooming an extremely vulnerable new target who he obviously didn’t want to realise what he really is]. . . . Anyway, the narc then also complained to police that 4 months prior to his complaint, during a 48-hour period back when the narc & I were still dating -- I had sent him a total of 4 text messages. This, according to the narc, amounted to “harassment.” Guess what those 4 texts said? 1st one said something like: “I thought you said you wanted to come over? Are you coming or not?” [To which the narc texted back: “yes”] 2nd text said something like: “OK cool.” [Narc texted me to say he was downstairs. My building has underground parking & I had to go let him into the parking space] So that was my 3rd text, which would have said: “I’m coming down.” My 4th text was sent the following day, and it said something along the lines of: “How could you do this to me?” That was in response to the fact that the narc sexually assaulted me that night. I already posted about this recently. . . . So, to recap, the narc had arrived at my home to supposedly discuss the fact I was having his baby. He’d raped me, & then stormed out. The following day I’d texted him asking how on earth he could do that to me. His response was to call the police 4 MONTHS LATER, to complain that I’d texted him 4 months prior to ask him why he’d sexually violated me. 😢🥺 Yes, this is the level of insanity you can expect if you deal with #narcissists . . . . Unsurprisingly, the police thought the narcissist’s complaint was absurd & that it had no merit. And so they cleared me of any wrongdoing, & I was free to go. The narc knew I was in my #2ndTrimester at this point. Probably engineered the whole thing hoping the stress of it would make me miscarry. It didn't -- I have a healthy baby girl now. It didn’t end there though — 👇 CONTINUES IN CAPTION 👇👇
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It amazes me that some people dream big without taking any action, explaning that it will happen when they are ready. Tada ~ just like that. I don't judge. However, if I let people into my world they can't just lie on drift wood floating through life. Contribute to the community that is supporting you and then you can have something to complain about. #freeloaders #selfdestructive #pessimists #narcissists #letgoofnegativity #community #strongpeople #weakmen
Why these post one May be asking themselves? They speak to a season of my life that snuffled my Spirit and flame. I survived and that testimony now fuels my purpose. I didn’t survive to just survive...It was ordained for me to help a many Queens & possibly a few Kings! Grateful that Abba kept me so that I now can open my mouth and help others. Yep! There is HOPE & YOU can and will journey with a healthy FREEDOM with the Holy Spirit leading the way! Let’s connect and journey forth HEART 2 HEART! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ #mystory #hisglory #purposefulpain #riseholyspiritrise #exposure #deliverance #freedom #liberation #restoration #Repost @dr_anniephd ・・・ Narcissists will always blame you for the wounds that they inflict on you. But, make no mistake, they don’t wound you by mistake. They set out to hurt, humiliate and deceive you. Please share with someone who needs to hear this because they are still trying to give a Narcissist the benefit of the doubt. . . . . . #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcabuse #victimblaming #gaslighting #walkingoneggshells #empaths #codependent #narcism #betteralone #manchild #entitled #emotionalabuse #healingfromabuse #anniekaszina #selflove#Narcissists #manipulators
People who don't truly have your best interests at heart will eventually slip and show their true intent. It's best to let negativity go by the wayside to allow positivity to keep flowing through your heart and soul. #narcissists #abusers #positivevibes #healthyrelationships #healthypeople
Forgiveness is not about them. It’s about you. Forgiveness doesn’t wash away their responsibilities for what they did or not. Forgiveness doesn’t mean that they will be in your life again. It means exactly the opposite of it. Until you don’t forgive them, they stay in your life with different names, like resentment, anger, revenge. Once you forgive them, you wash away them from your life. Sometimes people think that forgiveness means weakness, or that is something that nobody but Buddha is able to do. No. Believe me. Once you feel the power of forgiveness, you understand, as somebody said, that first of all “forgiveness is a selfish act”. When you forgive them, you forget them. ▫️ ▫️ ▫️ #forgiveness #forgivenessquotes #forget #forgetting #thejoyrney #selflove #selfhelp #selfhelpquotes #spirituality #spiritualityquotes #spiritualawakening #selfhelpbooks #spiritualcoach #spiritualwriter #yoga #meditation #meditationquotes #anxietyrelief #narcissists #buddhism #photography #picoftheday #selflovequotes #psychology #acim #healer #innerbalance #lifecoach #soul #potd
#Repost @megan.holgate • • • • • #Narcissists make you feel crazy - that is a fact! It happens so slowly, yet we all arrive at the same point - questioning our sanity! They are experts in conditioning our minds from their constant, yet cunning critiquing of every part of our lives. This can, and will affect your future if you don’t change your thought patterns, and eradicate them from your mind. Happy Sunday ⭐️✨⭐️
Self-sabotage works like a defense mechanism after having suffered abuse in the past. This is why it's important to be honest with yourself. If you don't want to see your truth, you'll always distract yourself, deceive yourself, or have excuses and reasons for not moving forward. It's much easier to blame someone else for your problems than to take responsibility for yourself and your life.
I felt called to talk about toxic relationships today, it’s been a huge learning curve for me, it was the huge lesson and healing in my own journey to eliminate toxic people from my life, the best I could to have my own peace of mind and maintain my self worth. I had to truly get to the point that I’d be perfectly happy alone the rest of my life to not tolerate any bullshit from anyone. I don’t fight, I don’t argue, I don’t try to convince anyone they’re wrong, I just detach and go in peace. That was hard, to let go of my ego so much that I didn’t give a crap if they understood me, I understand me, that’s all I need to know. We have people all around us that drain us that we can’t escape-coworkers and family-but even then you could change jobs or cut off people-I just take their power away-I see them, I hear them, but that’s not my truth or reality so I just smile and go do my thing anyway-I wish you strength to move past those sorts of relationships and truly honor, respect and love yourself✨💖✨ #toxicpeople #love #selflove #selfcare #selfworth #relationships #highervibrations #narcissists #emotionalabuse #peace #awakening #spirituality #transcendence #positivevibes #trust #truth #intuition #empath #lightworkers #fearless #blissedlotus
“Không ít người sẽ coi bạn giống như một lựa chọn của họ thay vì một sự ưu tiên, bởi lòng tham của nhân loại là không đáy.” Người ta cứ o ép mình đến chuẩn mực mà người ta ưa thích chứ chưa bao giờ nghĩ mình đang cần điều gì cả. Rồi đến cả những “tiêu chuẩn kép”, họ đòi hỏi mình phải đạt được thứ này thứ nọ trong khi nói thật - không phải muốn có là có chỉ bằng việc nói mồm. Và họ, những người đáng thương nhất thế gian, rốt cuộc sau việc đày ải tinh thần người khác cũng chẳng có gì đặc sắc. Tiếng Anh gọi họ là #narcissists , những kẻ lúc nào cũng nghĩ là mình đúng, là nhất, là có quyền áp đặt mọi điều để người khác làm theo ý họ muốn. Hy vọng là mình vẫn sẽ giữ bình tĩnh để không bất giác xù lông nhím lên và chống lại hết cả thế giới. Hy vọng càng lúc càng ít người bớt kém duyên hơn cho đời thêm đẹp. (Sẽ còn nói tiếp, vì mình rất gai mấy thể loại người như vậy) #nightthoughts
⠀ ⠀ it was never meant to be you were looking for love he was looking for an audience ⠀ ⠀
While you’ve tried to take the high road, #shittypeople #gossip #lie and use #smearcampaign It’s okay to come forward and tell the truth about #users #abusers #predators #liars #thieves #narcissists #sociopaths #frauds and #conartists If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better ~ #lamott #turnthetables #speakyourtruth
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