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The week ahead is a doozy. I’ve got my game face on. This is actually my writer face but sometimes they’re synonymous. Friday starts not one but two new books. Monday starts needles for life. Equally as scary. To be honest, the needles are less scary. These two stories have been gnawing at me and I get it, I have a lot to say to help a lot of people. Shit. To spare a lot of people. The irony is, to be a writer you have to be willing to go to really dark places and I always always have been willing. Beyond willing really. I’ve loved the grit of it. The rich experiences of shitty hotels and jogged memories and doing it all for the story. From reporting to fiction, it’s been the blood that keeps me alive. But non fiction is really not my jam. It’s a level of vulnerability and beyond that, reliving a lot I felt content suppressing. But the universe won’t let me. I have two stories to tell and I’ve decided to write them for me, for now. With no market in mind. No audience. No publicity plan or book forward. Just for me, for now. Worry about releasing later. (That’s what I’m telling myself anyway. Sshh.) • Big week ahead. 🖊💉🖋 . . . #writer #stories #needles #writerlife #complexptsd #crohns #cdiff #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #autoimmune #autoimmune #crohnscolitis #spoonie #author #screenwriter #songwriter #nashville #fighter #dogood #blackandwhite #musiccity #passionproject #passion #crohnie #warrior #books #gameface #gamechanger #fiction #helpothers #books #bookstagram
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You can’t find the narcissist because a picture doesn’t tell the whole story. . . This is super accurate. When you encounter a narcissist ... you never truly get to see them outside of the picture they offer. This is why so much of the world will be fooled of the narcissist’s true colors. . . . #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissism #narcissisticmother #narcissisticfather #narcissisticparent #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissistic #narcissisticrecovery #narcissists #narcissistfree #narcissistfreenow #emotionalabuse #toxicrelationships #healing #verbalabuse #endabuse #unitedinsilence #survivorstrong #healingfromabuse #healingtrauma #cptsd #ptsdrecovery #instadaily #quoteoftheday #quotes #instagood
This really speaks to me at this point. I was always the one who tries to see the good in everything even when it's a sh*tty situation... But when dealing with a narcissist, there is no fixing them. They don't think they need fixing. We will just end up cut up, depressed and left.... #truth #facts #toxicrelationships #fakelove #knowthesigns #stopthesilence #cheaters #stoptheabuse #fixed #cantfixthem #broken #shattered #shatteredpieces #hoover #cheatingnarcissist #domesticabuse #emotionalabuse #toxic #emotionalabuseisstillabuse #emotionallydrained #npd #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcopath #painisnotlove #lovedoesnthurt #lovedoesnothurt #timetoheal #becareful
The number one reason you should seriously work on yourself so that you can live a life you’re proud of after divorce! You will look back on this one day and you’ll see that what was once so hard for you is now super easy to manage. Work it girl!! * * Thanks @marieforleo for this post!
Narcissists are incapable of love.. I found out the hard way what love is not.. NEVER EVER have I seen such hatred disguised as love.. NEVER have I experienced such poisonous people.. Love is not in their heart, nor in their vocabulary... #loveisnotpain #loveisnotconditional #loveisnotwalkingoneggshells #loveisnotfear #breakfreefromthechains #loveisnotagame #movedontobetterthings #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcswouldntknowloveifithitthemintheface #istillbelieveinlove ❤️ #neverfallforanarcissist #againever
3/5 Mark your calendars. We are super excited to have Dr. Taylor as our first expert. Dr. Taylor will respond a variety of questions that we all have wondered about before. Nature vs nurture? The difference between Narcissistic traits vs Narcissistic personality disorder? Can they change? How can we recognize them? And many other very interesting questions. You don’t want to miss the answers. Stay tuned! @taylorcounselinggroup . . . . #narcissist #narc #narcissisticmother #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #survivor #empath #quoteoftheday #quote #recovery #heal #healing #sociopath #abuse #instadaily #thenarcissistscience #instagood #quotes #narcs #toxic #toxicpeople #taylorcounselinggroup
Whom would you believe based on instinct, reactionary body language and affect alone???? #Trump or #Mccabe ? 🤔🙄🤨😒 #AC360 #stigmafree #mentalhealthawareness #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder ✌allegedly✌ #disclaimer #MAGA "the eyes are the windows to the soul" or something my #evangelical mother warned me about 🤔 the irony
Only a woman who is a true sociopath would pursue married men & get joy in it because f destroying the lives of any kids involved, because it’s not just the wife who’s involved!!🙄🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🚩🚩🚩🚩 #karma #narcissist #narcissism #narcissistic #narcissisticabuse #triangulation #cheating #cheatingnarcissist #narcissisticparent #manipulators #manipulative #narcissisticabusesurvivor #liars #users #toxic #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #redflags #bewareofthenarcissist #crazymaking #narcissistictriangulation #narcissisticsupply #evil #gaslighting #psychopath #sociopath #abandonment #anger #angerissues #emotionalabuse #abuse
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Narcissists will create fake accounts on IG, Twitter, etc., or hack into your social media accts., and send messages to people in an attempt to make it look like they're coming from you. They will even send messages to themselves from fake accounts they create to make it look like you are contacting them. They do this to start drama, create imaginary beef and confusion between you, themselves and others for "show" to their audience of flying monkeys. It's all part of the smear campaign. #Build #Serve #StandUp #SpeakLife #Liberate #Books #Writer #Author #Publisher #MentalHealth #MentalIllness #DoingTooMuch #HealYourSoul #FlyingMonkeys #Hoovering #SmearCampaign #KnowledgeIsPower #NarcissisticPersonalityDisorder #NPD #Narcissist #Toxicity #ToxicPeople #NoNarcs
In an abusive relationship, we often find ourselves silenced. What we do, the choices we make, how we operate, our perception of ourselves and others - all are drastically influenced by the abuser. How can we go about forming the most accurate version of ourselves, when even the most basic of human decisions (like what we wear, the company we keep, etc) are dictated by someone else? Well... we can't. And we can't control being judged by others... but we can decide how much we will allow their judgment of us to encroach upon our judgment of ourselves. #abusiverelationship #abuse #trauma #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #marriage #divorce #depression #anxiety #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #npd #npdvictim #love #life #you #beach #innerpeace #inspiration #inspirationalquotes #empowered #afterthestorm #blog
Thank you @lewishowes for this beautiful reminder ♥️
NARCISSISTIC ABUSE
If you’re asking yourself if you’re a narcissist, you’re not. If you’re seeking to heal from the pain, you’re not a narcissist. If you can empathize with others, you’re not a narcissist. - You are also not a victim if you are doing the work to evolve from the abuse. You’re a survivor with a warrior spirit. Do not fall to the victim mentality. You have the power to rise. 🖤 - #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #triangulation #hoovering #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissistrecovery #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissistsurvivor #domesticabuse #domesticabusesurvivor #domesticabuseawareness #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #crazymaking #lovebombing #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #selfcare #trauma #healing #psychopath #psychopathfree
Today's/tonight's full moon is 15%nearer the earth's atmosphere accounting for tidal waves over 30%, higher in some areas, this rare exciting moon brings with it the energies of the universe amplified in a rare occurrence.msnifest your desires, imagine a force so powerful it pulls entire oceans, now know that runs through your veins. You are not your thoughts. Make magic ✌️☮️ #moon #lunar #fullmoon #magic #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #wicked #covert #overt #lawofattraction #lawofpositivism #stalkers #hidinginplainsight #deadeyes #infj #infjpersonality #empath #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #hsp #infjproblems
As I sit and listen to my son happily giggling in the other room, I realize how blessed I am. Even with the panic attacks and the triggers that still haunt me on occasion, my life is so much more peaceful now without they negative, selfish people around me. I have those that love/cherish me and they don’t take opportunities to hurt me like the ones I have removed from my life. My journey has not been an easy one in my recovery from narcissist/emotional abuse from a raging alcoholic, but I own it and I face it every single day. I do the hard work or self reflection and try my best to be there for others who have gone through something similar. I pray for those that may go through this in the future, but have no understanding now of what it is like in the aftermath. I am PROUD to be able to share my story and help others understand. I have nothing to be ashamed of. God knows how human we are. And he knows the TRUTH about what we went through. About how our hearts have been broken and our faith in people has been destroyed. Slow healing is better than no healing. And being at peace within myself and being a better mother and a better person is possible when you don’t have someone lying to you on a regular basis and calling you a “fucking bitch” when you stand up and call them out. It’s possible to put negative family out of your life who tell you that you are selfish and a bad mother while you are doing your best to take care of them as well and they are too blind to see it. God knows my heart and he knows my pain. He knows that my intentions with sharing are pure and that my pain, and THE truth; will help someone else find their peace. And for me?? That is peace and happiness at my core that I have never known. What they are doing and their happiness are irrelevant to me. God knows the path I must walk and the path he wants me on, and HIS opinion is the ONLY one that matters. #findyourpeace #truth #cptsd #lies #secondarysupply #healing #takingmycontrolback #iamrelevant #iamanopenbook #youarenotalone #narcissism #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #NPD #narc #narcissist #pathologicallying #pathologicalliar #emotionalabuse #youarenotcrazyeither #clusterbdisorders
Gosh how true is this? When you build up your self confidence, you really gain sooooooo much more than the ability to reach outside your comfort zone: you’re now able to handle ANYTHING that comes at you, and you bounce back from it all faster and faster until nothing can shake you down.
repost from @healingafternarcabuse It can be a tough pill to swallow -- accepting the fact that this actually happened to you. However, it's vital for you to push past this challenge because your #healing is on the other side of the pain. #narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #npd #psychopath #sociopath #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #healingafternarcissisticabuse #healingstartstoday
The perfect listener that remembers every detail about things you have told them...and stores all the information for future manipulations and emotional abuse 🚫 #actors #abusiverelationship #abuse #abusive #baiting #brainwashing #covertnarcissist #controlling #decepcion #empath #emotions #gaslighting #games #itsallanact #manipulators #manipulative #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissistawereness #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #sociopath #staystrong
It can be a tough pill to swallow -- accepting the fact that this actually happened to you. However, it's vital for you to push past this challenge because your #healing is on the other side of the pain. #narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #npd #psychopath #sociopath #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #healingafternarcissisticabuse #healingstartstoday
Oh the shame! Deep, toxic shame. Shame was an emotion I wasn’t too familiar with. And it wasn’t a fun one to process. I suppose somewhere deep down I knew that an uncomfortable feeling called shame was eventually going to come to the surface and it would be very difficult to face. Perhaps that’s why I stayed a little bit longer than I should have. Why I didn’t want everyone else to be right. Why I wanted so badly to believe I was special - special enough to change a grown man’s unhealthy behavior and ingrained personality. Which in retrospect sounds egotistical and foolish. But maybe that’s what I was. Maybe I knew the truth all along but was too afraid to admit it and meet that uncomfortable, raw, real shame. 🤦🏼‍♀️ . If you’re stuck here, be kind to yourself. Like, so fucking kind. Practice self-compassion. You are facing a very real, very painful, very heavy feeling. Your willingness to face it and speak to it and learn from it, is honorable. Give yourself time with it. Give yourself time to forgive yourself. And until you do, keep your distance from anyone who makes you think, for a second, that they’re saying “I told you so” in their head. (Or worse, saying it out loud.) You don’t need any more shame projected onto you. You don’t deserve it. 💛🦋
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《Former Shell》 Experiencing your dark night, is to understand your evolution. Self transformation can be a sticky time; not understanding yourself, your purpose and ultimately the world around you; tough ask on a person. This evolutionary process can often feel overwhelming; Solid 10 on the whelm scale. Do your best; learn the lessons, follow the steps, go deep, go inwards, whatever it is you need to figure out, take some time for yourself and get it done. Be in the pain. Ask it questions, 'what are you teaching me' listen in between the silence that you have created and seek clues. Be alone. As much as you can mentally tolerate. Isolation is a dam good teacher. (Not too much) Cut ties with people you deem no longer serve your life agenda. Fill your life with people who want you to succeed. Importantly, know you're loved. You are enough. Inspired by @justashell18 @katiec257 . . . . . . . . #lifecoach #coaches #coaching #spirituality #spiritualgrowth #spiritualawakening #spiritualjourney #darknightofthesoul #depression #mentalhealth #evolution #humanevolution #selflove #selfacceptance #selfimprovement #motivationalquotes #positivequotes #motivation #womenshealth #femaleenergy #femaleentrepreneur #empath #empathsbelike #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #love #instagood #personalgrowth
If they say it, it must be law. That's all according to the Narcissists, that is. They think that what they dictate to us is the law, and if we dare challenge it, they will face their wrath. #ffnaea #narcissist #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #narcabuse #abuse #emotionalabuse #npd #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcsarenotthelaw
My mom would always tell me that it takes a better person to just walk away, rather than engage. This isn’t an easy option when you’re dealing with a narc. They antagonize until you reach the breaking point of feeling crazy. - The narc did this on the daily, a few times to the point that I wanted to take my life. The way I felt inside was so intense that I just wanted it to end, my body would vibrate with craziness. He would push me to that point and then love bomb the shit out of me. - The crazy maker would spin the insanity, then call me crazy. He’d wait until I was pushed to the point of yelling and sobbing, then record it on his phone so he had proof of how insane I was. Normal, empathetic people don’t do that to others. You are not dealing with a rational human. - If you are still in this type of relationship, recognize that this is abuse. If you’re out, stay strong on your path to healing. 🖤 - #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #triangulation #hoovering #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissistrecovery #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissistsurvivor #domesticabuse #domesticabusesurvivor #domesticabuseawareness #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #crazymaking #lovebombing #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #selfcare #trauma #healing #psychopath #psychopathfree
Many Narcissists like the underhanded ways of abusing others. They want to leave us feeling confused and uneasy. They want us to take the blame for the abuse. And covert tactics like manipulation is just one way they go about keeping their targets confused. #ffnaea #narcissist #narcissists #narcissisticabuse #narcabuse #abuse #emotionalabuse #manipulation #gaslighting #covertabuse #covert #npd #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder
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