#narcissisticabuse

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"I've been quiet for too long I found peace in your violence Can't tell me there's no point in trying I'm at one, and I've been silent for too long..." (**Silence**, Marshmello)
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If this ain’t the truth... They’re just as fake and phony as they come 🙄 #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissisticabusesurvivor #npdawareness #npd
The truth is, you DID do it, it WAS that bad, it IS a big deal, it IS your fault and you DID mean it! And most importantly...I DIDN’T DESERVE IT! #dv_warrior #abusiverelationship #dvsurvivor #manipulation #disappointment #liar #domesticviolencesurvivor #domesticviolence #narcissist #sociopath #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #abusesurvivor
Please tell me? I’m so physically and emotionally drained. #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #workonyourself #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #narcissism #narcsupply
Trauma bonding is real. It does to the mind what heroin does, causing an imbalance of brain chemicals. A sick, sadistic game of punishment and reward, it reinforces your addiction to the abuser. Idealize...devalue...discard. Idealize...devalue...discard. OP @narc_surthriver
⁣ Setting boundaries. ⁣ ⁣ Sometimes, I’m caught off guard by people who overstep my boundaries. ⁣ ⁣ Address the issue, don’t avoid it. ⁣ ⁣ It doesn’t need to be confrontational, it just needs to be addressed. ⁣ ⁣ State the boundary. ⁣ ⁣ Hold the boundary. ⁣ ⁣ When in doubt, say ‘no’ or ‘I’ll get back to you.” ⁣ ⁣ Practice saying ‘no’ about the little things, so it’s easier to say ‘no’ to the bigger things. ⁣ ⁣ There are people who will simply ask things of us because they want or need something done, and there are people who will take advantage of us or harm us. ⁣ ⁣ It doesn’t matter what the motivation or nature of the interaction is, it’s okay to say ‘no’ ⁣ ⁣ It’s kind of nerve racking at first, but it gets easier with practice. ⁣ ⁣ Boundaries are a huge part of healing and self care. ⁣ ⁣ Take care, today, Lovely⁣ ⁣ #narcissisticabuse #healing #boundaries #healthyboundaries #acon #adultchildrenofnarcissists #healingfromabuse #selfcare #selflove #boundarysetting #justsayno #video #portraitphotography #bw #setboundaries
The way you treat yourself sets the standards for others’ treatment of you. ••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• Email @narcissist.sociopath.awareness @gmail.com IG @narcissist.sociopath.awarenes2 twitter @narcopathaware FB @ Narcissist Sociopath Awareness www.narcissist-sociopath-awareness.com •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• #LifeCoach #narcissistsociopathawarenes2 #sociopath #narcissist #psychopath #narcissisticabuse #cheater #breakup #abandonment #timesup #toxicpeople #crazymaking #empath #selfhelp #weaknesses #coercivecontrol #strengths #walkingoneggshells #anxiety #fu_slh #selfworth #pathologicalliar #traumabonding #boundaries #psychologicalabuse #selfrespect #trauma #emotionalabuse
🤥 For example: If someone cheats on you, they risk losing you if you found out the truth... 😞 Or someone you’re dating could tell you they’re totally over their ex, when they’re actually trying to win them back... 🤨 Or if someone is married, they may tell you they’re going to leave the marriage so that you stick around, but they really have no intention of doing so... 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏻‍♂️ Or someone may want to make themselves seem much more appealing so they tell you they have lots of money etc. or lie about their career or where they live in hopes you may be more attracted to them... 💴 🏡 All kinds of lies are circulating these days... 😏 But no matter which way you spin it, no one wins when lying is involved. It will ALWAYS catch up with you. -Trina👩🏼‍💻 . . . . . . #quitlyin #quitlying #bestinterests #liars #lying #liarsandcheaters #honestyisthebestpolicy #honestyiskey #honestyiseverything #liarsbelike #liarsalwaysgetcaught #narcissists #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #pinnochio #jussiesmollett #jussiesmolletthoax #dishonesty #breakupadvice #relationshipadvice #infidelity #datingadvice #divorce #divorced #divorces #datingtips #foodforthought #yourex #myex
Just the other day, someone I thought was my friend compared my lips to someone else and made me feel incompetent and ugly on the inside and out 🥺 ..... Why did it hurt me? I used to get teased about my big lips as a youngster but as an adult it seems to be “trendy to have full lips”. I grew up not wanting to smile much and hid my lips with my hand. He brought me back to that moment in my life with his words 🖐 ..... I realize my lips and smile are my trademark. These lips will never kiss anyone’s ass or chase friendships 🥰 Love yourself fully 👄 ..... #lipsfordays #lipsonfleek #lipsoftheday #nobotoxneeded #natural #spanishgirls #narcissisticabuse #narcissism #recoveryispossible #recoverywin
I struggled for a long time trying to understand how many of the friends I had in my life would rather remain friendly to both my ex and I than listen to the truth of what I had endured for 13 years of living with a narcissist. I had no choice but to create a completely new world where my words became uncensored and my life surrounded by loyalty and support. #narcissisticabuserecovery #transformation #narcissisticabuse #newlife #timetobloom
This legal definition accurately describes the behavior of the run-of-the-mill narcissist. Scary stuff. __________________________________________ 📞📞📞📞📞📞📞📞📞📞📞📞📞 One on one support is available by phone anywhere in the world. Schedule your phone call with me today. Even a single appointment can make all the difference. (See website for details. Link in bio.) ________________________________________ Email @narcissist.sociopath.awareness @gmail.com IG @narcissist.sociopath.awarenes2 twitter @narcopathaware FB @ Narcissist Sociopath Awareness www.narcissist-sociopath-awareness.com ________________________________________ #LifeCoach #narcissistsociopathawarenes2 #sociopath #narcissist #psychopath #narcissisticabuse #cheater #breakup #abandonment #depravedindifference #toxicpeople #crazymaking #empath #inspiration #closure #smearcampaign #highconflictdivorce #gaslighting #humanheroin #anxiety #fu_slh #betrayal #pathologicalliar #traumabonding #boundaries #psychologicalabuse #divorce #emotionalabuse
Nope! Pass!
When a primary caregiver demonstrates neglect/abuse towards a child, the child developes #copingmechanisms to survive. These can be behavioral but often are psychological as well, resulting in the child internalizing the pain and shutting down. Wounds are then carried over into adult relationships and create a whirlwind of problems, making it almost impossible to have a #healthy relationship. #attachmenttrauma #counselors #counselorsofinstagram #whirlwind #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #toxic #abuse #emotionalabuse #psychologicalabuse #physicalabuse #neglect #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticparent #codependency
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They know when you’re hurting.
My days still disturbed by flashbacks. The malevolent memories somehow easier to swallow, as they trigger the hate and the anger he so rightfully deserves. It’s the memory of the promises, the person portrayed to me that I spent so many years creating a life for that strips me of my conditioned fibrous armour. Those early years when life held no responsibilities we intertwined our lives. Our bodies and souls opened to each other in an ocean of alcohol and drugs. Nights were never long enough as ecstasy has us dancing until the sun came up, only having us welcome the daylight opening our hearts and sharing stories until our high had us making love for all hours of the day. We spend months in an unrestrained devotion to each other, stimulating me in ways I couldn’t have imagined. I was infatuated with him and how he made me feel. My eyes blinded to any concern in his urgency to make me his. A visitor in his country my departure was slowly encroaching on our love affair. I saw his desire to keep me there as a sign that destiny, had our paths align, so I surrendered myself to him and his promises. I surrendered my country, my family and my friends to become his wife, to build our future together. I believed in him, I believed in our life, that he could give me all that my childhood had robbed me of. It took only one year, until I said “I do” for the charade to crumble. Overwhelmed in confusion that the man I married was suddenly replaced by the devil right in front of my eyes. The man who opened my heart, listened to my stories was now that man that stuck my body and broke my heart. My mind knows those fond memories were only that of a well produced play, yet they trigger me so deeply my legs still quiver in desire. I no longer want him, as he forced hate into my soul, but I want all that he promised, I want all the hope he filled me with, I want the innocence, the desire, the passion and the love. None of it was real but what I felt was real, and it’s those memories that hurt the most. 💜 #narcissisticabuse #abuse #domesticviolence #narcissist #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #sociopath #narcopath #abusesurvivor #domesticviolenceawareness #nocontact #traumabond
I’ve seen karma and justice unfold before my very eyes many times in some very serendipitous ways - so serendipitous in fact that you’d have a hard time believing it wasn’t a miracle. It’s always very surprising when that happens but reminds me that there is a bigger power and larger picture at work. Hang on and have faith. Keep going. ❤️ —————————— #motivationalquotes #inspirationalquotes #power #fucktoxicpeople #karma #justice #narcissisticabuse #abuse #bullying #stopbullying
I’ve had both a physically abuse relationship and now a verbally (and psychologically) abusive relationship. I can tell you from my own personal experience that the outer wounds heal much faster than the inner. Verbal abuse IS domestic abuse. Let no one convince you otherwise. #domesticabuse #verbalabuse #truth #cptsd #lies #secondarysupply #healing #takingmycontrolback #iamrelevant #iamanopenbook #youarenotalone #narcissism #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #NPD #narc #narcissist #pathologicallying #pathologicalliar #emotionalabuse #youarenotcrazyeither #clusterbdisorders #recovery #narcissisticabuse #mentalhealth #narc #narcs #MYjourney #helpingothers #covertnarcissism #hiddenabuse
Don’t let anyone convince you differently. You know the truth. You know what it’s really like and what they’re exposed to. I still have so much guilt for staying as long as I did. I didn’t think it was possible to leave. How could I afford it? Constantly listing the 10,000 ways he’d make life even worse for us. That feeling of relief when he’s being nice to us for a day which allowed me to breathe and not think about the horror he’d put us through the past week. I’d convinced myself of why I couldn’t “do it now”. You can leave. Do it NOW. Take the leap. I honestly didn’t believe it would feel this much better. It does. Get yourself and your children out of there. They can’t leave. Mama & Papa bears unite!!! . . RP: @warrior_mom_vs_npd #gaslighting #narcissisticabuse #morallybankrupt #narcissism #narcissist #divorce #domesticviolence #domesticabuse #ifmywoundswerevisible #childabuse #covertnarcissist
You attract these demons from others because of the demons that already reside within you. We attract what we ARE not what we deserve. Your demons know each other before you even really know the person. Handle your demons. Send them on their way and you won’t need to search for the impossible anymore. But you can’t send them along until you become aware of them in the first place. IG memes will fill you up with the sugar coated dribble about being a good person and always looking for the best in people. You’re a good person period. We all are. The problem is that at at least two of your demons are a lack of boundaries and self worth. Start there.
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Their bitter hatred gets them nowhere. Do not allow them in your spaces. They can watch you rise from afar, especially since they can’t celebrate your victories. ♥️ ———————————- #toxicpeople #boundariesarehealthy #fucktoxicpeople #empath #hsp #narcissisticabuse #pathologicalenvy
Psychopath Free by Jackson MacKenzie is essential reading for those in the early stages of #narcissisticabuse recovery. You are not crazy. You encountered pure evil. #psychopathfree #emotionalabuse
Reposting @inspiredbygabbi : The past few months in my life have been all about boundaries. . I’m learning how to respond to the people who try to ignore or dilute my boundaries for their own selfish ambitions. . There will come a point in your life where you have to choose between their best and your best. Their version of happiness and your version. Their picture of your life and your vision. . Within that vision you’ll mentally have these limits set up that help you maintain the mental clarity and peace you need. . But it’s not enough to have them, you need to enforce them. You don’t owe your life, time, or attention to anyone who does not respect your limits. . And NEVER adjust them. If the person loves you enough they will at a minimum respect it. . . . . . #relationships #relationshipgoals #growth #inspiration #gaslighting #quotes #anxiety #selfcare #selflove #life #boundaries #narcissist #relationshipquotes #narcissisticabuse #empowerment #healing #endthestigma #dreksangelsandwarriors derekcanas.com
Something bigger is on the way. Whilst you might be going through tough times right now- the universe has your back. I am an example of this. Even though I can’t share with you exactly what is happening right now (because of Family law & Criminal fraud proceedings with my narcissistic sociopath ex husband who emotionally, verbally & at times physically, abused me + kids- lied, cheated, schemes and put us through hell & back & then financially defrauded with the help of a prostitute he had an extramarital affair with for 12+ months).....in due course I WILL be able to share everything with you guys and you will understand how it this betrayal blessed me (literally lemons into lemonade) 🙌 Keep going and don’t give up, karma IS real and the universe recognises a good heart. People who knowingly set out to hurt others, don’t live a happy life. Hang in there because the universe is reordering your life for the better- don’t fight it. #sundaythoughts #sundayfeels #sundaymotivation #abusesurvivor #narcissist #liars #cheaters #deception #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #financialabuse #keepgoing 💪 #dontgiveupnow #positivenergy #positiveminds #positiveaffirmations #youvegotthis #yourestrongerthanyouthink #strongwoman #knowyourworthladies #strongmind #cantbreakme #betrayal #blessed 😇 me #grateful 🙏 #ivegotthis #somethingbetter #theuniversehasyourback #reapwhatyousow #karmaisabitch
#Repost @narcopath__awareness with @get_repost ・・・ @narcissist__awareness @narcissist__awareness_poland @narcissist__awareness__spanish . . . . I'm in the early stages of compiling and writing a compilation of narcissistic and psychopathic abuse survivors stories! I'm looking for women and mens stories. Don't be too quick to write your story just yet. Ponder it for awhile. I'm coming up with submission guidelines and legal matters. Stay tuned for more info to come. If you would like to submit your story for possible publication, or even if you would like to just purchase the book, send me a email so I can get you on the mailing list booksubmissions1@gmail.com I KNOW MEN SUFFER FROM NARCISSISTIC ABUSE AS WELL AS WOMEN BUT I HAVE A WOMENS ONLY PRIVATE SUPPORT GROUP ON FACEBOOK. SEND ME A MESSAGE IF YOU WANT TO JOIN . . . . . Most images I share arn't my own. I'm just the messenger. When I share my own you will know it. I add my ig name at the bottom. Thank you! :) #npd #narcisticpersonalitydisorder #clusterb #sociopath #psychopath #npdawarness #awareness #npdvictim #npdsurvivor #narcissistsurvivor #narc #narcissistawarness #nocontact #narcissism #emotionalabuse #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #spiritualawakening #domesticabuse #truth #emotionalabuse #redflag #narcissistredflag #narcissistfree #narcfree #psychopathfree #empath #ifmywoundswerevisible #aspd #levelup #narcissistsurvivor
Are real relationships possible? Are people actually practicing monogamy? I want to hear from you!!
Never let your emotions overpower your intelligence. Take action every day towards the goals you want to achieve 99% of failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses.✨✨💯 #goodmorning #nomoreexcuses #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #iseeyou #stopbullying #motivation #lifestyle #life #takingkindnessforweakness #beautifuldestinations #nomoreexcuses #friends #friendshipquotes #family #wasteman #getajob #redflag #uglypeople #moveon #realtalk #keepitreal #keepyourheadup #captions #relateable #exams #examseason #examstress
Men with narcissistic tendencies were drawn to me because I was a “people pleaser” and had no set boundaries. They knew I would go over and beyond and pour all my love into them so they used my good heart against me for their gain. I still have a good heart but I understand now that I have to set boundaries because takers will not. . . . . . . . . . #ivebeenthatgirl #toxicmen #xonecole #theshaderoom #blavity #blackwriter #twitter #twitterpost #iwrite #relationships #relationshipquotes #love #lovehurts #reciprocity #loveme #selfishpeople #toxiclove #voids #rehab #lovequotes #relationshipmemes #relationshipgoals #loveandrelationships #emotionallyunavailable #emotionallyunstable #selflove #fuckboys #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #narcissm
100%! My mum even had flying monkeys at my school... Convincing everyone you're the problem, and that they're an amazing parent unlucky to be stuck with a child like you..... Education is enlightenment. You don't need them and their vitriolic abuse in your life.. #narcissistmummy #narcissisticmother #narcissisticabuse #narcissistfree #abuse #emotionalabuse #emotional #sad #familyabuse #abuseawareness #angrydaughter #survivor #love #tears #bitter #abusiverelationship #survivingnarcissistabuse #goodbye #breakingaway
I realized that the negative behavior I allowed from people in my life only continued because I allowed it to. Once I started to only allow certain behavior and positive people all the bullshit in my life started to go away. What you allow will continue. Don't let a person get used to treating you poorly. Demand the best because that's what you deserve. Tag a friend you know deserves the best👯‍♂️💓 #honestywithandrea
"Our stories are not meant for everyone. Hearing them is a privilege, and we should always ask ourselves this before we share: 'Who has earned the right to hear my story?'"⠀ - Brené Brown
You can read all the books, watch a bunch of YouTube videos or listen to a bunch of podcasts.... Yet the old patterns can keep winning out! . This situation creates an internal disconnect from yourself and impacts your own self trust. . “I know I know better, but why am I not doing it” . Creates more harm the your mental state, confidence and trust. . But the two are completely independent, the intellect sitting more in the conscious mind where are your habits are in your unconscious. They have been embedded there over years and years! . When you invest time into your intelligence and knowledge your focus is at some level in the wrong place. Your time and focus is better spent in your unconscious mind. Learning the lessons it has to teach you, not building upon it knowledge that others are projecting into your world. . Why do I say this? . Because this is the impact of effective coaching, it works on your unconscious mind. Bring all of those lessons and learning to your conscious. . A new program specifically is focused on uncovering the unconscious habits and patterns in relation to relationships. Bringing this awareness to your conscious mind so you’re able to break the cycle of dating the same guy/woman or the cycle of toxic relationships! . It’s time to free yourself! . If you’re ready for this, click the link in my bio and apply for the upcoming ‘Path 2 BE Me’ program! 😊 . #LifeWithOptions #PathToSelfMastery #ReclaimYourPower
———————————- Be vigilant in what you text your child... stay in communication but keep it light and friendly... your ex IS checking it to see what you’re writing and they will pounce on ANYTHING they can use to their advantage. . . . #narcissisticabuse #narcs #narcissist #narcissist #custody #custodybattle #childcustody #jointcustody #sharedparenting #divorce #coparenting #divorced #divorcedmom #singledad #divorceddad #narcsurvivor #fortworthtexas #fortworthtx #gracepowerstrength
——————————- When we marry someone we may ignore any red flags regarding their character and instead have tunnel vision only focused on their potential. I remember telling my parents verbatim “he has so much potential” 🤦🏻‍♀️ .... I was failing to see exactly who he was while dating: •He had tripped my sister and laughed it off as a joke and that I had overreacted..... •He had pushed me to get an abortion when I knew it wasn’t the morally right decision for me and I let him bully me... •He had driven fast and erratically and didn’t care even when stopped by police. •He pressured me into a wedding date I didn’t really want to commit to........... 👉🏼LESSON; it doesn’t get better. It actually gets worse. When they laugh and admit they cheated their entire way through college you can bet they will cheat on you... . . . #narcissisticabuse #narcs #potential #redflags #narc #datingadvice #realtalk 💯 #lessonslearnedinlife #lovelessons #lifelessons101 #narcissist #toxicpeople #cheaters #liars #toxic #divorcedmom #divorce #movingonquotes #byebyebye #sociopath #fakepeople #fortworthtexas #fortworthtx #dfwinsta #gracepowerstrength
And to think some of you are getting upset because you didn’t get a good morning text 🙄🙃He’s only hoping to keep you on ice while he checks out other options. Don’t waste your time. Sometimes “good morning” is just about having both your egos stroked. Not a sincere sign of interest or action.
Reposted from @dr_anniephd - I have to say that “Everything happens for a reason” is a phrase I absolutely hate - mostly because I hear it uttered by people who think they are more qualified to pass judgement on your life than you are. I don’t believe that bad things happen to you so that the pain can grow you and “make you a better person”. You grow through the pain because of your inner strength. Plus, you were a good enough person already. Bad things happen because bad things happen. That is reason enough. Double tap if you are not a fan of the glib, “Everything happens for a reason” line. . . . . . #youareworthy #putyourselffirst #lowselfesteem #narcknowledge #knowyourworthladies #narcissisticabuse #narcabuse #narcism #toxicpeople #narcissisticabusesurvivor #healingfromabuse #anniekaszina #selflove#narcissisticinjury #healingjourney #dontoverthinkit - #regrann
These words can run your mind in circles. What do they mean to you? .. To me, I expected certain behavior from my spouse and I accepted that behavior in a marriage no matter how illogical it seemed. I settled for certain behaviors that I expected to occur. I wonder where I would be had I not accepted unacceptable behavior? .. .. .. #expectations #greatexpectations #acceptance #acceptwhatyouexpect #acceptyourself #acceptmediocrity #dontsettle donotsettle #divorced #divorcebible #divorcerecovery #divorcedmom #divorceddad #divorcesupport #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissistsurvivor #coparent #coparenting
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