Women everyday are getting pressured into sex. Not just by someone begging them and making them feel uncomfortable.
In many domestic Abusive relationships, the abuser uses mind games and manipulation to get the abused to agree to things they want to say no.
For instance, a woman does not enjoy sex much, her partner knows this.
However, her partner does not beg her for sex, instead they say things like "You hate me" "You don't find me attractive" "I am repulsive" "Clearly you getting sex elsewhere" "You used to love me" "You never touch me anymore" "Why am I still staying, I should leave and get sex elsewhere"
Those, are how a narcissistic works, they make the abused feel sorry for them, like it is all their fault so they give the abuser what they want.
Sure they are not pinning them down while they scream, but they are still sexually and mentally abusing them.
Words and scar, and words can make people do a lot once they have had it drummed into them enough and made to feel like they are the ones at fault.
Men and Ladies! You are not at fault, you do not have to feel guilty for not giving your partner sex, just because you don't give someone sex, it does not mean they are unattractive.
You have a voice, use it, because once you give them what they want, then what?
They act all normal and you, you are the one left feeling like you were manipulated into it, but then you feel guilty because you made them feel unattractive!
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