You can still be silly and free. Innocence can never be robbed from you. You only can take it and lock it up in a box trapping it in there for fear it may escape.
That’s right, girl. No matter what he’s saying about you, how badly he wants to take everything away from you, cries “victim” and lies to anyone who listens, that “toxic, negative, abusive, selfish, low vibrational” soul sucking loser of an ex is finally in your dust. 🤣 See ya. Lady, you won! ♥️
i clearly have a thing for nature.
it's part of my recipe for getting out of my head and remembering who the fuck i am.
The Narcissist ♟
Signs of a narcissist:
-they boast about themselves...a LOT or they seem to revert the topic back to themselves and how they one up whatever you do
-gaslighting. This one is painful. They flat out deny any wrongdoing...but they do it in such a matter-of-fact way you start to question if you’re just paranoid or if your memory’s blurred... slowly, you begin to doubt your reality
-they always blame other people for their mistakes. What responsibility?
-99% of their problems were self perpetuated or based on making bad choices -they always put themselves first. In other words, they are very selfish people. Forget their children- they are their own flesh and blood... they have manic survival skills because how can you not when you only care about yourself? that’s why they do well in life or death situations. Imagine putting them in a desert with no water...they’ll be just fine with that kind of self-preservation
-This ones harder to detect, but as soon as you let them get their way, they flick their emotional switch back to heartless. These people don’t have normal people emotional capacity, you can’t win with someone who fakes empathy. It’s just not in their body. So don’t let the tears fool you. Their pleading means nothing if you’re hope is for them to change.
-Cut and run. This is, in my experience, the best and only way to “fix” a narcissist. They see everyone as an extension of themselves, are users and will often think about how they can take advantage of your resources. Shut the windows, lock the door. RUN. It works because chances are until you’ve read this you’re probably still living at their disposal. Which is ok. Allow them to underestimate you; let them believe they’ve got you wrapped around their finger and then like the air...evaporate. -Animals have species just like there are more specific types of narcissists. Some lie, some don’t. Watch out for dishonesty. These people can manifest in many forms. It doesn’t have to be romantic. They can be family, friends, ex partners... 💔
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What we fear most, things like heart break, becoming like our parents or choosing the “wrong” career is exactly where we will find out what we are made of and in the process who exactly we want to become instead of who we do not want to become.
One failure, one setback is not the end. Do not forget how far you have come.