No one is a "perfect parent".. Everyone at some point has lost their temper for the smallest thing, which really doesnt justify the reaction but for some reason it happens. The lack of sleep, illness, tantrums, cleaning, work loads.. everything can get too much and make you crack. My child likely doesn't do enough "hobbies" cause quiet frankly some days I can't be bothered, I'm over tired and just need my 4 walls. But regardless to all the negatives, we read, we dance like idiots, we draw, we sing and play.
Folk really need to stop judging others. As long as they child doesn't need to 're build their lives at a later date due to childhood issues, what's the problem!