➰SELF LOVE CHALLENGE 12➰
2 years before I started my blog, business(@definition_tees
) and discovered things I could do.I was still wallowing in self hate.
Social media didn't help me either because the #gram
was filled with young women doing great things in their various endeavours. I adored these women and never believed I could achieve anything like they had achieved.
I began to entertain fear of the future.
Questions like these came to my mind:
When will I ever be like this or that?
When will I ever get to this level?
When will I ever have this or that number of followers?
When will I open and grow a big online store?
and so many more.
These questions built fear and self hate because they made me compare my journey with others.
Did things get better by worrying about the future?? NO!! I had to stop feeling sorry for myself and get to work!
These were some of the first steps to my liberation from self hate.
The best way to predict the FUTURE is to CREATE it!! Like we say in @tribecalledena
-BE A DOER!
Build a brand in line with your abilities and passion.
It will help you appreciate & #love
What is your biggest fear of the future?
Mine is failing my children or failing to leave a legacy.
You are loved!❤ #everythingnaart #growingwomanblog #selflovechallengeng