I love this so much. This idea that people are only attracted only to certain “types” of people is a #lie
parents make up to scare #nonconforming
I am a #fat
, #bearded #woman
who loves to #fuck
I am a fat, hairy, bearded woman who is openly #kinky
I am a fat, hairy, bearded woman who has had several #sexual
I am a fat, hairy, bearded woman who is ethically non-monogamous.
I am a fat, hairy, bearded woman who has several people citing her as a crush.
I am a fat, hairy, bearded woman who has been fucking for almost 20 years.
I am a fat, hairy, bearded woman who comes home to a man every night who can’t wait to put his hands all over her. “Ok, so what? Who cares?”
The POINT IS, #women
who are deemed societally “unpalatable” by.... well, often men (often straight cis men) who discuss or even mention our #sexuality
are usually met met with, “no one wants to hear that,” or “no one wants to see that,” or sometimes, “yeah, right.”
See, the flipside of reducing societally PALATABLE women to #sex
objects, is DENYING the sexuality of “undesirables” (again: fat women, hairy women, older women, disabled women, queer women, women of color, etc etc). We are “not allowed” to discuss our sexuality and be seen/thought of AS sexual because The Bar is set by men who - don’t want to fuck us, or - don’t want to ADMIT they want to fuck us.
So it’s easier to just pretend that women who look like me either DON’T fuck, or SHOULDN’T fuck.
Want to offend shitty men?
Then (if you are sexual, and if you’re not, JUST AS VALID!) be proudly sexual.
Fuck with vigor.
Shop for sex toys (or window shop if you’re broke like me).
Check people out (respectfully!)
Show men that our sexuality isn’t Gatekept by those who reduce us to “yes” or “no” piles.
Or laugh as they turn away, offended.
#sexpositive #sexpositivity #feminism #femininity #allbodiesaregoodbodies #effyourbeautystandards #thebodyisnotanapology