Some people allow anyone to ride with them (be with them, be by their side). Those type of persons have no standards, no expectations, and ultimately, no true ambitions. They just take anyone and accept whatever they give or do not give.
That's not me. That is not how I role in my personal life. I am ambitious. I have standards. I won't allow certain people in my life, such as those who are comfortable calling me names, those who are comfortable hanging and speaking casually with my enemies, those who use other (especially me), those who do not take care of their responsibilities, those who neglect their children..... I have a list.
I have to put stipulations on the admittance of people in my life because I am highly ambitions and gifted. I cannot afford to have those who are not on my level or too small to come with me and drag me down with their mess. It's not a matter of owning things or being at a certain financial level. It's a measurement of a person's total being, their character, their mentality, their way of life.
When you set standards, you will have to send some people packing. You'll have to turn certain people away. It's good for them too. If you let the wrong people ride with you and they are not on your level, they will know that they are not on your level. They will feel the difference as you will too. That will lead to conflicts.
Set your standards and measure those who are in or wish to come into your life. If they want to ride with you, they will have to come up to your level.
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