Why does living life have to seem selfish to me. That’s how I used to think about my choices. If I wasn’t helping my family or others it must be selfish because I just don’t have time to do it all. But all that does is break me down. People will think I’m selfish I workout, or buy myself new clothes, or take my family on a vacation or day trip. But that’s not living. Sitting here working until everyday has passed by and the memories were not made. Only those of being depressed and hating what I’ve done. Rather than making future plans and looking forward to what time we do have together. So as I learn to make decision that serve me I also learn to not care what others think and set an example. For my kids and those I care about. Never forget life is precious. #momoftwo #highbloodpressure #redhead #selfishlove #beingpresent #dowhatmakesyouhappy #fuelyoursoul #makingtime #lovetohike #mountains #camping #dontrunfromme #behappy #makethechoice
Self respect is an important part is selfcare and selflove.
I totally agree.People complement you.Not complete you
No, you are not one person you are many, for some you are cunning for some you are naive, for some you are selfish and for some you are generous, for some you are hatred and for some you are love, for some you are cheater and for some you are loyal🤐
For some you are nothing, for some you are everything.
While you are taking birth in some one's life and becoming a moment, you are also dying in some one's life and becoming a memory. Niether worry about the Nothing nor the everything.
It's all the Dharma of Life..
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ready to party🇹🇷Baby, let's be honest about this
There's only room for one in your heart
So tell me, darlin', why are we like this?
I must admit that I kind of like it
Oh, you're acting sweet
I know what that means
All these games we play
Always end the same
Selfish love, why do I do these things?
I break you down, just to get my way
Selfish love, darlin', you do it, too
You tell me lies and I bend the truth
And I, I know
That I can't get enough
Baby, now it feels like we're dancing
Touching bullets, now ain't that romantic?
Take what I want, but you want me to take it
I only give love when I want to make it
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El mundo te ve como tú te ves 👀
Haz de ti la persona que quieres ser, y todos te verán así. Si te miras al espejo y no te gustas, solo te criticas o directamente no tienes ganas ni de mirarte, creas en la gente un rechazo y no les interesará conocer más.
Todas la mañanas mírate al espejo, y di a esa persona que tienes delante lo guap@ que es, que hoy va a gustar y el mundo l@ va a ver.
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Detach with Love.Practice the pause 💕❤️
...me pone este ritmo sabrosón y golosón
Vamos ostentar, sim! A alma mais bonita, o sorriso mais sincero e um coração capaz de amar. Isso sim vale a pena ostentar! 🌸
It took me years to establish a routine i had before all the stress went gung ho! on me again and i recently relapsed.
Now stress has two types and whoever says it isnt is a piece of positivity crap.
1- The kinda stress we invent for ourselves:
b)Our actions cause us.
2-The stress that people throw on us because they are incapable of dealing with it on their own.
And my stress has been because of people and that is why i have been really angry lately because i can handle my own stress by now but i DO NOT have the capacity to deal with what others throw at me even when i have communicated well that i dont want to deal with it. Maybe they know i am really good with stress..maybe they realise not wanting and not needing are two different things and they obviously don't respect my choice of not accepting it.
Hence i am in the process of politely cutting off anyone who makes me feel unwell after I've struggled to reach to a point of normalcy. Anybody who can not respect my mental health does not deserve to be a part of my process. I am not going to handle your issues when you cant handle it yourself. *cut-cut*
Think clearly about what you need and figure out what you need to do in any situation to get it
We have been taken advantage of and subtly abused or conditioned through guilt,Shaming that induces the need to people please way before the main perpetrators come along.Think about it and you will see the subtle messages and the bullying that created the enabling behaviors that allowed you put up with the drama you put up with. When I was younger the following happened
My brother as a little boy always wanted to fight or intimidate me(little bully)
My sister when given money to share always gave me less than what was mine or I never got it
My freinds managed to shame me for doing well.
My dad said some words about my face at one point that where emotionally abusive(I was suffering from a terrible acne attack). Even though he later helped me get meds it totally shamed me and made me feel inadequate.
My mum tried to control me and manipulate some situations
Freinds have guilted me due to my kindness for services and money
A lot of this where subtle but it created the narrative of fear,shame,guilt and people pleasing and no one taught me to speak up or say no.
Do not be hard on yourself.Its time to learn the skills you did not learn in childhood.Our messages thought us fear and that we where not safe.Theres no need to be afraid of anyone with time you will see.Their only power over you was your lack of knowledge to this truth
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DEEP.......EVEN AS A MAN I CAN FEEL THIS WOMAN'S THOUGHT PROCESS
Well...... she thought she loved him... until it was time to have sex. He told her to lay on her stomach because he can only get turned on from hitting it from behind while the waves of her big butt gave him something to bounce to. She thought he listened to her when she told him she wanted eye contact the entire time so she can see the love in his eyes. It's obvious he doesnt care because the only thing he sees is himself nuttin on her back.. He's pumping faster and faster while gripping her breast in believing he is loosing control from the pleasure... the speed of his pumps is making her insides hurt as if he had a goal to reach her stomach.. she yelling for him to stop but he only believe that she is saying STOP to keep going. The negative energy around his aura is being inserted into her spirit because he didn't care to bond with a woman, and only use the word LOVE to make her submit to his penis. She can no longer remain wet because all she think about is being his cum deposit. The blood of her heart is pouring through her tears because she accepts defeat and believe there is no one out there who will truly treat her like a QUEEN. #relationships #sexualabuse #sexualassault #submission #submissive #lovedoesnthurt #selfish #selfishlove #sexaintbetterthanlove #loveispain #enoughisenough #loveeachother #rapeculture #rapecultureisreal #heartbreak #emotional #emotionalabuse #eroticart #erotica
This what I go through at home, this why I don’t stay there.