•Goddess Talk• with @the_goddess_seshat
I don't mean just romantic relationships. I mean all. The relationship with you "friends", the relationship with family, etc. It's important to not only recognize when a relationship ship is toxic but also remove them from you life.
Removing toxic relationships from your life is difficult for several reasons. Often time we are dependent in some way on those people. A place to stay, financial, mentally, physically. So it makes separation difficult.
Also the truth that nothing is bad all the time. There are moments of reprieve in the worst situations. Abusers don't always abuse. So we justify. We barter with ourselves. We stay. And the cycle of abuse continues.
I've been there. Arguably still am.
The thing to do is to keep a goal in mind to remove yourself from that situation as soon as possible and never lose sight of that goal. Note I said goal, NOT wish. NOT prayer. GOAL. Goals should have dates of completion. Goals should have plans. Goals should have steps. Come up with your exit goal. Maybe it with resources you have and ones that arent quite available but are attainable. The put your plan into motion.
It isn't how slow you move, just that you never stop moving.
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